[Obelisk]

JonDoe, I feel for you.

It's almost like nature is playing a joke on us by making men generally hornier than women. I sometimes wonder how exactly we are different than those packs of monkeys I see in the african nature Discovery shows.

If I could shut down my libido safely I would do it in a snap. I've looked into the option, and all of them carry nasty and dangerous side effects that I'm not ready to consider. If I had zero sex drive, my penis size would be a non issue because it wouldn't be needed.

As it is, I decided to buy a SizeGenetics. It seems that men are gaining in general about 1" after 6 months to a year, and it is very safe. Ideally I'd like to be 7", but even at 6" I'd feel better about myself. Going to start using it next week.

[Hajduk26]

Speaking as a man, men really need to get over this. I know it's hard. I deal with it too, but we've got lives to lead and our women seem to love us as we are.

[LisaW1991]

I think its mostly urban legend than actual reality. Sure there are going to be super insecure 40 year old (virgin) guys that still live at home with their parents all because they have 8 inch erection and think its too small....lol

Or how about the guy who's insecure because he has great sex once per day, and feels insure because its not 3 times a day with different women every time.


Some things are just kinda hard to take very seriously.

[Obelisk]

Sure there are going to be super insecure 40 year old (virgin) guys that still live at home with their parents all because they have 8 inch erection and think its too small....lol

Well you know how every guy on the internet is packing at "least" 8" and they are petrified that they are tiny. Also every woman who says she's had huge (10" or bigger) after some fact finding (like measuring with her hands and such) it ends up being that the dude had maybe 7" tops.

I know some women genuinely don't care and might find large too big. Other women probably love bigger.

I personally think sex should be left for when you truly care about the person, and not the first thing you do when you meet. I stayed a virgin for most of my 20's believing this. But I had to give up on that ideal, otherwise I was going to end up the 40 year old virgin.

I also never had to worry about my size until I started using what I have. So when I measured at 5" and everyone on the internet says that anything less than 8" is small, well, it's hard to not absorb that and obsess about it.

I'd be happy to find a woman that hasn't had too many partners, like me, but that is probably a pipe dream now.

[jns]

I'd be happy to find a woman that hasn't had too many partners, like me, but that is probably a pipe dream now.

I don't think it's as much of a pipe dream as you think. There are a lot of women out there who have had only one or a couple of relationships. It's just that they are hard to find because they are scarce and probably are in another relationship after a short while. You could try other countries that are socially traditional and value getting an education before starting a family.

[Obelisk]

I don't think it's as much of a pipe dream as you think. There are a lot of women out there who have had only one or a couple of relationships. It's just that they are hard to find because they are scarce and probably are in another relationship after a short while. You could try other countries that are socially traditional and value getting an education before starting a family.

That's the joke. I don't want a family.

What's the likelihood of finding a woman who hasn't been with too many guys, wants to find a good guy for a relationship, and doesn't want kids.

lol

[fremdeizr]

To HisGirl

Here's another male's take on your original question:
I think the insecurity is partially attributable to porn, but it's not the full reason. There is something inherent inside of me as a man that says having a large penis makes me more of a man. It says that I am able to show my mate that I am a real man if I have a huge erect penis to show her, give her and pound her with.

I know that in the real world, the above feeling is completely false and totally illogical. For me, the feeling does not come from admiring penis sizes on porn or seeing bad porn acting. It is also not because a woman has rejected me in the past. Rather, it somehow is a strong part of my internal male psyche that I cannot explain and cannot completely flush out. For me, it is simply part of being born a male. I cannot complain at all about my penis size, and my wife has told me that she enjoys the feeling it gives her when I am inside her compared to less endowed penises, BUT it ends there. It does not change at all how she is able to orgasm, and this makes complete sense logically and physically. Additionally, anal sex is completely out, as you mentioned. We tried once, very slowly and extremely gently, and it simply was way too painful for her and we won't be trying it again.

Hope this helps provide another male viewpoint. I cannot speak for others, but this is my opinion.

So I’ve read through many pages of old threads on this site and I’ve learned a lot. Holy cow, I learned some stuff I didn’t even know I didn’t know!

A topic that seems to have been beat to death is penis size. Why are men so insecure about it? I’m reading about all these guys who are wondering if their 6 inches is good enough. Are they serious? In my opinion,

Anything between 5-6 inches is perfection! Think about it. It’s still too big to fit entirely in the mouth, but it can get almost all the way in if its driven to the back of the throat. Yet, you don’t have to actually do a deep throat to get the deep throat effect. Also us girls are not going to tire out or break our jaws sucking you off. We’re able to suck longer due to less fatigue of the jaw muscles. And because girls don’t like broken jaws, we’re more likely to agree to suck you off in the first place. In addition, there’s more room for the tongue to move about and do wonderful things for you. Not to mention, we can ride you better without getting impaled. Impaling is bad. And if you ever wanted to try anal and she’s up for it, you got it made in the shade.

If there are any ladies out there who want to add to this list, please feel free!

Please don't flame me, I just have a sick sense of humor!

[Obelisk]

Porn has no effect on me regarding the matter. Most of it is fake, and a lot of it is prosthetic devices.

For me it's simply the matter that if a woman has had larger, it's likely that smaller ones won't measure up.

I laugh at HisGirl's affirmation that a guy should be confident in having a 3" penis. That's like a guy being confident that he has some deformity that makes him look unattractive.

And there's no way a woman can tell me that going from a man with an 8" member to a 3" member would not be pretty disappointing to her. Going from 8" to 6" probably wouldn't matter much I agree.

I started using that SizeGenetics device. I'm hopeful that I can get to 7" which is my goal. Even if women have had larger than that, it's unlikely 7" would be seen as small. My current size of 5" would probably be seen as small, no matter what women say.

[Doll-HouseFiction]

Hi!

I just want to contribute to the original post. I am a female in my mid-twenties and I want to say that yes penis size does matter depending on the situation. If I met a guy at a bar and my only intention is to go home with him that night, I would hope to end up with a guy with 7 inches.

However if I am dating a guy and I like him enough to want to pursue a relationship, I really really could care less what size his penis is because the majority of my orgasms would originate from how sexy I feel he is.

If I love you, the sex would be amazing regardless of penis size. If I don't care for you then the sex would be more dependent on penis size.

Bigger penises only matter in terms of aesthetics…otherwise it really doesn't mean anything.

******As for the user above, my ex was 8.5 inches and sex was painful and I dreaded every time we would have sex. The guy i ma dating now is like 5 inches and he's PERFECT for me. I can't wait to have sex with him lol ******

[Obelisk]

Hi!

I just want to contribute to the original post. I am a female in my mid-twenties and I want to say that yes penis size does matter depending on the situation. If I met a guy at a bar and my only intention is to go home with him that night, I would hope to end up with a guy with 7 inches.

However if I am dating a guy and I like him enough to want to pursue a relationship, I really really could care less what size his penis is because the majority of my orgasms would originate from how sexy I feel he is.

If I love you, the sex would be amazing regardless of penis size. If I don't care for you then the sex would be more dependent on penis size.

Bigger penises only matter in terms of aesthetics…otherwise it really doesn't mean anything.

************As for the user above, my ex was 8.5 inches and sex was painful and I dreaded every time we would have sex. The guy i ma dating now is like 5 inches and he's PERFECT for me. I can't wait to have sex with him lol ************

Dollhousefiction.

Yes thank you for your reply. I feel this is pretty honest. This is exactly why, I think 7" is a good # to be at, since in all my research, it seems to be # that most women will find bigger than average, and at the same time will not be painful for you.

Like I said before, I believe size is mostly a visual thing. The woman is likely to get turned on more by a bigger unit because she believes it will feel better. The actual mechanics probably wouldn't matter much.

I usually ignore the stuff about "love" because "love" is one of those funny things. Like if you loved someone, you probably would not care if they had an accident and lost their arm or leg, or something like that. On the same note, if you "love" a guy, you probably wouldn't care much if he only had a 3" unit.

But we're speaking at a primal level here, and it's dishonest to tell guys that size doesn't matter when it does. But because women are of different shapes and sizes, we can never really know what's "big" and what's "small"

I'm sure there's women out there so small, that 5" is the max they could probably handle without pain. Other women might not feel anything smaller than 8"

One of the reasons I am more attracted to petite women is the likelihood that they will be smaller down there too, and have a higher chance to enjoy what I have more.

There's been a lot of success stories too from men gaining 1"-2" from careful penis exercises, so I'm taking that route and see how much I can gain in a year.