After being involved in a few of the recent penis size threads I`ve realized I seem to be alone many respects. Most notably my experience with my husband who is well-endowed. It seems that manyy of the women on WH who are or have been with well-endowed men have had complaints. It`s uncomfortable, It`s painful, or it`s difficult to get wet- or stay wet enough to accommodated it. I on the other hand, have never had any problems with my husband. Well not size-related problems anyway. Am I just lucky.? Is there anyone else out there like me?
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Not the Usual Penis Size Thread
This is an informal poll for ladies with experience with well-endowed men.
After being involved in a few of the recent penis size threads I`ve realized I seem to be alone many respects. Most notably my experience with my husband who is well-endowed. It seems that manyy of the women on WH who are or have been with well-endowed men have had complaints. It`s uncomfortable, It`s painful, or it`s difficult to get wet- or stay wet enough to accommodated it. I on the other hand, have never had any problems with my husband. Well not size-related problems anyway. Am I just lucky.? Is there anyone else out there like me? -
Well it might be based on which particular dimension he's well endowed in. Is he longer than normal or does he have more girth than average?
I'm a little shorter than average at just over 5 inches, and exactly 5 inches in girth which makes me average or slightly above in girth. That means I can probably skip foreplay and just go straight to sex with most women, provided they aren't virgins. -
After that whole other entire thread, I still don't know what's "large" and what's "average". Studies are saying 5-6" long and 4.8" girth is average and that above 7" long is rare.
I think I believe that, seeing as to how many guys in porn nowadays really aren't that much bigger than me (maybe 1"-2"). The guys who are huge are always the same 3-4 guys that keep popping up in every porn video.
And then there's the woman's actual size. If she's small, a penis that's 6 or 7" is going to feel huge. So personally whatever answer you get here from others still leaves us at square one (lol and
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I guess for me it's understanding female anatomy a bit. I think most women don't get too much clit stimulation from penetration alone. It's easier for us guys because penetration stimulates everything for us.
They need something to stimulate their clit more directly, and that's usually the guy's tongue lol.
So for me it's not so much that I like licking it (I'm kind of neutral about it) but more the knowledge that for the woman I'm with, doing it for her will be very pleasurable. I think it's selfish of men to just them wanting to get off. I want my woman to get off too.Pigeonholer extraordinaire!Comment
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What about "that" makes you think it's OK to skip foreplay? Do you know why many women (and men) enjoy foreplay?
Original Poster: I cannot really contribute to your poll since the men I've been with were all generally the same size-evidently all above average according to folks here. I would imagine a bit bigger wouldn't be painful or unsatisfactory, and have often wondered why the complaints about larger ones. Conversely, I didn't notice much difference in the men who were slightly smaller either.Comment
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Drifting off topic, but as a guy, foreplay is a large part of the fun. Actual intercourse doesn't usually last all that long, and if it does it can get repetitive. Lots of other intimate things you can do together for a long time first. I think a lot of people would enjoy sex more if they started to understand that an orgasm is not the goal, after all, almost all men and women can give themselves an orgasm faster than their partners can. It is the interaction with your partner that makes sex fun - foreplay is just more of that interaction.Comment
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My small size. Do you need foreplay to insert a tampon comfortably?
I cant say that i know why people like foreplay. If i'm attracted to a girl enough to engage in foreplay chances are she's hit enough to give me an erection. When I get hard the next thing i want to do is unload if you know what I mean. Its quite uncofortable to sit there with an erection thats not being stimulated in some way. Just the way I'm wired I guess. I just assumed all men were the same. In the videos the guy gets sucked off and then penetrates so that he's always getting stimulated while aroused.Comment
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