[muffin70]

the few times I've given ny wife oral she said it tickles, and I don't know if I am doing it right or not, but she has great orgasms when I stimulate her clit and suck on her nipples at the same time.
I personally would love to receive more oral from her, but she doesn't like the 'taste' of a mans penis... don't know why that is

[Motorguy]

Well for me and wife, I would say it's 50/50 with doing oral on each other.

[Magnetism]

I'm not a fan of this "give and take thing", because I am satisfied with just giving. What do people mean when they say a "woman doesn't get anything out of blowjobs?" If it feels good to her and is turning her on, what's the problem? The mouth is an erogenous zone anyway, AND you can finger yourself/have your breasts rubbed.

I only enjoy receiving IF the person can locate the clitoris properly (Trust me, I have shown people. They still don't get it), and my body is warmed up enough. I definitely don't like being pressured into ALWAYS having to receive pleasure. I have had great intimacy with just giving oral, and then cuddling/talking afterwards. An outsider might say that my lover is selfish or that I'm a doormat, BUT I'm the one that prefers it that way.

[Magnetism]

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[Magnetism]

The divorce rate would be dramatically reduced if married guys received an unsolicited, enthusiastic, start-to-finish BJ at least once per week.

Hmmm....one would think that, BUT some guys are critical. The comments I've heard about "Women don't get anything out of blowjobs" were made from men. It's a turn-off for me to explain why I derive pleasure from giving blowjobs.

It's like a man that complains about not getting enough sex, but when he does meet a highly sexual woman...He's not sure what to do with her.

[Motorguy]

Hmmm....one would think that, BUT some guys are critical. The comments I've heard about "Women don't get anything out of blowjobs" were made from men. It's a turn-off for me to explain why I derive pleasure from giving blowjobs.

It's like a man that complains about not getting enough sex, but when he does meet a highly sexual woman...He's not sure what to do with her.

Well guys who don't go down on there girl friends or wife's comes down they don't know how to. They really only into there own self pleasure and not the women they are with pleasure as well.

[Claret]

Oral sex involves giving or receiving oral stimulation (i.e. sucking or licking) to the genitalia. Fellatio (also known as a 'blow job') is the term used to describe oral sex given to a man, cunnilingus is the term which describes oral sex given to a woman, and anilingus is oral-anal contact.

And this was posted for what reason? I think we all know the names and what we were talking about here, there's been no confusion. Just curious here. I think you may be confused as to what was being talked about.

[effy2014]

I'm not a fan of this "give and take thing" . . .

I only enjoy receiving IF the person can locate the clitoris properly (Trust me, I have shown people. They still don't get it), and my body is warmed up enough. I definitely don't like being pressured into ALWAYS having to receive pleasure. I have had great intimacy with just giving oral, and then cuddling/talking afterwards. An outsider might say that my lover is selfish or that I'm a doormat, BUT I'm the one that prefers it that way.

You need to see this from the giving man's perspective. An equal part of loving is being loved . . . receiving love. I get that you receive pleasure from giving. Make the same assumption about your partner. He wants to go down on you to express his need to please you and to get his own pleasure from your taste, scent and your pleasure. I would not stay in a relationship where my partner only wanted to give and would not allow me to give as well . . . no matter how good the BJ's were.

It does not have to be "always" and your partner should be skilled at cunilingus. But denying him the pleasure of giving to you is being selfish.

[effy2014]

And this was posted for what reason? I think we all know the names and what we were talking about here, there's been no confusion. Just curious here. I think you may be confused as to what was being talked about.

I was going to write the same thing.

[Magnetism]

You need to see this from the giving man's perspective. An equal part of loving is being loved . . . receiving love. I get that you receive pleasure from giving. Make the same assumption about your partner. He wants to go down on you to express his need to please you and to get his own pleasure from your taste, scent and your pleasure. I would not stay in a relationship where my partner only wanted to give and would not allow me to give as well . . . no matter how good the BJ's were.

It does not have to be "always" and your partner should be skilled at cunilingus. But denying him the pleasure of giving to you is being selfish.

Effy-please tell me where I said I completely deny a man to eat me out. Of course, I will let my partner do what he enjoys. The fact remains that I like giving more than receiving. I agree a guy has to be skilled. If it's not done the right way, I'm not going to feel much. I don't want to be rude , but I don't appreciate being called selfish (unless I misread your post). It's frustrating as it is when I'm called too giving or too nice, just bc I like giving blowjons . People are entitled to like what they like when it comes to sex.