[jenniferand2]

i am sorry i had to deny you

i am sorry i had to deny you on yahoo my bf made me he didnt want me talking to you. email is the same if you want to email me ok

[Guest]

Its totaly fine (jenniferand2) but i didnt add you to say i was horny etc etc, just added u as would be nice to talk to someone, but its ok and sorry if i offended you.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

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Ask about your fears

Off course, no one has a problem with you coming back to talk...

Just looking at the above... That's a world of it's own.

Whilst you are ill and that is a problem.. you have a lot of fear which stems from un-answered questions.

What is wrong with me.
Why is this happening.
How do i over come it.
What happens if i cant.
What's the best course of action.


I would add therefore, that you MUST mention that because you do not know answers to so many questions that you are also suffering badly from being petrified on all levels, of who you are, of what may happen, of where you can go from here..

Let them know that you are scared, perhaps they can prescribe something to you that assists with anxiety and keeps you feeling better regarding those fears.

That i think is also important.

CW

[Guest]

Ive goto say im S****** myself about tomorrow, and not as if i cant go ive been orderd else i will get picked up, accordin to my current shrink can she do that or her colleadue at the hospital ?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Ive goto say im S****** myself about tomorrow, and not as if i cant go ive been orderd else i will get picked up, accordin to my current shrink can she do that or her colleadue at the hospital ?

Take a deep breathe.... Remember, that you need to go...

Have you asked the relevant questions that were suggested? Of what happens when you do? That you or a family member only can sign paperwork in regards to anything?

I am sure this is the case, or you can contest, over an "assumption", verses consent.


Bottom line is, this is for evaluation and questions and answers, again, forget the title of where you are going, ask the questions....

Take two more deep breathes... Fact is, you have to find out solutions?

Don't you....

So, this is not about being crazy, but about finding solutions to your concerns and that can only ease your mind can't it... At the end of the day....

CW

[Guest]

Cheers CHANDLERS WISH

Erm my mom signed some papers, my shrink needed to talk to her but im not sure what the papers were for all i know is in away i dont want to go tomorrow ive been sick twice today just becuase im so nervous, i admit i want help but i asked both my mom and shrink and all my mom said is its for your own good, i think thats why im scared the most as its a mens hospital and im scared things will happen i dont want to say but hope you know, but i have to go tomorrow else like i say think pick me up, and yes i have many questions to ask when there but sort of scared what the answers i might get, like sex drive be killed off, or castration which i admit i might need, i dunno just scared sorry about posting here all the time everyone.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Cheers CHANDLERS WISH

Erm my mom signed some papers, my shrink needed to talk to her but im not sure what the papers were for all i know is in away i dont want to go tomorrow ive been sick twice today just becuase im so nervous, i admit i want help but i asked both my mom and shrink and all my mom said is its for your own good, i think thats why im scared the most as its a mens hospital and im scared things will happen i dont want to say but hope you know, but i have to go tomorrow else like i say think pick me up, and yes i have many questions to ask when there but sort of scared what the answers i might get, like sex drive be killed off, or castration which i admit i might need, i dunno just scared sorry about posting here all the time everyone.

Okay, of course your scared... That's natural, but you've stated along the way that you need and want to, doesn't make that easier hey?

It's a hospital, exactly not a gaol, i understand what your thinking but nothing like that is possible in hospitals, it's like going on an alcoholic abuse or drugs related hospital where you have time to recover and work it out.

Stop apologising as if we didn't answer then you'd have nothing to apologize for? We do, so that means we are happy to? Okay...

Look at it as if you are a drug user, needing to get off of it...

If you don't like an opinion your sane, in your thoughts, perhaps not body, so as a consequence, ask for a second, if refused, ask for legal advice... Your sane... Okay...

Go, take time in there, okay they'll assess, but as i said, if they come to that conclusion, well you've never experienced sexual intercourse anyway, and you want to live and be happy, but it can be your choice, seek legal, demand it, that no one can make a decision for you, sure, saying your incapable of your own decisions and be admitted, probably your Mother has that power.

But, if you don't agree with a method of how? SEEK LEGAL ADVICE at the same time, stay there, and get the assistance to try to over come it...

Best of wishes with all sincerity... And I'm here for another 1/2 hour if you want to talk more.

CW

[Guest]

I know, i'll have to see what happens tomorrow they have already talked to my gp and my shrink said they needed to get my moms concent for somethink as im not thinking properly, she mad me out to be some nut it felt. My own mom as even told my gp i need help sexualy and asked about castration, in away i want my sex drive killed off if thats even possible as then i cant hurt anyone by exposing myself and masturbating, but selfish side of me wants to stay horny and get my kicks sexualy, but i will see what happens i dont want to be took in but i feel they will even if i say no, this document they got my mom to sign worries me, and my mom will do anythink my doctor and shrink say.

anyway i will shut up for now.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I know, i'll have to see what happens tomorrow they have already talked to my gp and my shrink said they needed to get my moms concent for somethink as im not thinking properly, she mad me out to be some nut it felt. My own mom as even told my gp i need help sexualy and asked about castration, in away i want my sex drive killed off if thats even possible as then i cant hurt anyone by exposing myself and masturbating, but selfish side of me wants to stay horny and get my kicks sexualy, but i will see what happens i dont want to be took in but i feel they will even if i say no, this document they got my mom to sign worries me, and my mom will do anythink my doctor and shrink say.

anyway i will shut up for now.

Well it's off course a difficult thing for you... But at this point, acknowledge that it's a "admitted patient" not a decision?.. Okay...

You can argue, that...

If it is possible after some time in there that there are signs that you can overcome this, no one will do anything.

It makes no sense based on where you are now, and then being admitted, to see what the outcome is that anyone will do that NOW..

The point is to see what happens from here!

Does that make sense?

So, this is initial stages, not the end result.

Your fears are based on end result how can that be possible without a trial, evaluation?

It truly can't.

Remember that, and treat this as evaluation because frankly that is what it is.

CW

[Guest]

Yeah i iwll have to see what happens tomorrow chandler, cant understand why the got my mom to sigh somethink but they have classed me as a sex offender for exposing myself and masturbatin in front of my ex friends daughter, and that scares me as i dont want to be classed as a sex offender the rest of my life, but i guess thats what i am both doctor and shrink have talked about medication to stop my sex drive but also mentioned castration and chemical but i dont understand chemical castration, which freaks me out, yes i want to stop doing what i am 80% wants to be castrated and sex drive killed off thats if they can even do that, but the 20% which i hate is the horny carl and dont care what he does as along as he gets seen with a hard on and masturbates and cum i hate what i do after but then get horny again and back it again. anyway will have to see what happens i know what im going to ask thanks to most of you but scared about being admitted which i think they will do, then im scared about loosing sex drive and balls.