[Phoebee]

Is it the fact that its "womens" knickers thats important? I mean DH is virile and all male but he wears male silk briefs. And looks pretty hot in them btw! If he suddenly showed up in a Teddy I would be very un-turned on...

Just a thought....

[millicent]

Ha Ha Ha... Phoebee, Who's DH and what is BTW? Don't knock it until you've seen me in a Teddy!

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"I don't/won't compromise myself, I'm all I have." Jonnie G

[millicent]

Yes it is important that its womens knickers Phoebee,

[CHANDLERS WISH]

By The Way . Pheobe loves her Dear Husband, but I bet you thought she was calling him something else...

Here's a question for you, what size do you order?

[millicent]

Hi Ms Chandlers Wish,
Its a bit of an odd question you ask, but if your contemplating sending me something pretty, I guess I'm around a size 10-12 although I do have some items that are a size 8. Each company/manufacture have a size variant, thats why I try before I buy if I can.
The majority of shops are ok at my trying things on, some are not though.. It kind of depends on the changing rooms... I find it all to be fun.

[millicent]

Oh. Why wasn't I born a lovely sassy woman?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I always ask questions.... lol

So UK verses Australian sizes, I think are a bit bigger, perhaps I should have said, are you petitie or are you a largish man...

I don't know if that would make a difference, lol, I am purely trying to visualise... Not you personally but underwear on a Man.

I gather that your girlfriend of 10 years, ( which is pretty good innings if you think about it), kind of preferred you to be yourself, whilst not around her persay.

Perhaps you need to go again in this direction...

It seemed to work the first time for at least 10 years.

The thing is though, secrets kept can portray themselves as dishonesty, therefore mis-trust.

Let me ask you another question (because I can) up to you to answer or not after all....

But, when did the last girlfriend get a wiff? Find out? How long into the relationship? And, how was that done? What was her re-action? What was the reason for the ending?

As, i said, you have had a 10 year relationship, it's evident therefore you can have another, if not life partner..


CW

[millicent]

Hi CW,
I'm a reasonably fit mid sized guy... slim.. but not too slim. When I wear a basque or some such pretty garment I hope I pull it off a treat. I could email you a photo if you wish... lol..
My long standing partner probably got a whiff as you say, pretty soon into our relationship. I came home with a lovely little number and promptly put it on my self, she was a wee bit hurt by that! She thought it was for her!
I didn't venture there again.. She did know my thing... but we never talked about it.
I tried in the first year to tell my partner, but it was a choice, mess it up or hide a few things.
JG

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I guess that's the bottom line. After some time, they have emotions, feelings, thoughts, I still think you need to mingle with "kinky people" not straight..

Even Bi-sexual people are saying in your thread, "nothing wrong" "but" doesn't do anything for me, the opposite.

How else can I say this to you? It is not bi, not gay, it is a fetish.. Simple.

Whilst your lady accepted you for 10 years, she still DID NOT accept you, in that atmosphere you have stated that, it was somewhat hidden.

We are souls and we relate... But you need to circle yourself with those whom can say wow, that's hot..

Like any fetish, or like any bi, verses bi...

Simular to those whom are not bi, they can not fathom woman on woman, man on man, no different at all.

CW

[millicent]

ok Ms CW, I know what you are saying.
I've put an ad in the local paper.. "Panty toting male maid, dressed to please is looking for local fun work" I'll let you know how it goes.