[SorridLives]

But, it balls down to you not being femine I feel, regardless of your passion, it still boils down to a WOMAN WANTS A MAN grrr.. simple.

How can you show this? And, at the same time, wear women's things, as I said in writing you are a MAN, interesting, sexual, intreging, but put you in my bedroom in those clothes WITHOUT experiencing the SOUL of your MANHOOD, seeing the MAN, it would be very difficult....

CW

Yes, a man that wears women's undies has to show there male side and assure the woman that they still want to sleep with a woman. "Grrr", as you put it.
My Ex managed to show me he was still very male. He had this kinky side and went off on his own with it, into a fantasy world. I never really was comfortable with it....but he stopped doing it on his own when he went into a 12 step program for NA (Narcotic's Anonymous).

[millicent]

I really don't care fore the 12 step system. I've been there and done it. If you want to change something then use your brain! The 12 step system will only try an brain wash you into their limited view point. I wouldn't recommend it.

[SorridLives]

I really don't care fore the 12 step system. I've been there and done it. If you want to change something then use your brain! The 12 step system will only try an brain wash you into their limited view point. I wouldn't recommend it.

I say, whatever works for a particular person. It worked for my Ex and he was not a religious person. He liked the phrase, 'take what you need and leave the rest'. It works for some, not for others. If you want to take some good out of it, I think you can. My opinion. My current man (my husband) agrees with you....that it is BS.

[millicent]

Crikey! What is the big deal with a bloke wearing some frilly panties?
Get a life.

[SorridLives]

Crikey! What is the big deal with a bloke wearing some frilly panties?
Get a life.

Who are you addressing? You can wear panties all you like! LOL

[millicent]

I was feeling a bit low yesterday.

Thank you all for the comments, it is helpful to hear how women feel about this subject.
Even if I wanted it to, my desire for wearing pretty lingerie isn't about to change.
If I happen to meet the woman of my dreams I would have to be honest with her and tell her very early on in a relationship. I will sit her down, and over our Latte I shall say "Honey I have something I ought to tell you" No not quite like that, but I will have to be open.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Sometimes, what you ask for can actually happen..

Who knows?

[WildChild]

I have some curiosity, if you don't mind answering. Is your interest in lingerie, the garments themselves, the association with women or is it more the feel of the fabrics? Is this more sensory or fantasy?

[millicent]

Wildchild its all of those things. I love the feel of soft lace, silks and even lycra is cool. The association with women is definitely there somehow. The huge collection of styles is something else, pretty prints, sexy cuts, garments that kind of hug you, flowing garments, skimpy garments. Some suit me better than others... I wouldn't want to look daft now would I. Yes the thrill is sensory and fantasy... It really is a great feeling. You women are so lucky really.
I'm not so taken, that I would put this thing before respecting a partners feelings, but it might be a hard thing to do.

[WildChild]

But dressing a woman in these and being close to her wouldn't have the same effect? What about things like sheets and draperies in luxurious fabrics? Does this extend beyond Your body to others bodies or to the space you inhabit?