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No you don't but nore can you "control" his actions?

That's like a Mum.. I have to stay because you'll be bad..

What about you? I want to stay with my family for a bit, I need time out, to think and evaluate, it's my life as well, care what you do... this isn't always about you, it's about me too?

Your family obviously care about you but they shouldn't be financing him, and how is that the way for a marriage?

They can't continue to help you through together, financially, he can't support you and probably because he spends his whole time being a "child", playing games, on a computer, drinking with mates, no responsibilities..

That's not a future.

I would go to your parents and have a real deep thought over all of this sweet.

Sorry.

CW

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I can't believe what I'm reading. Please re-read this entire thread as if it's a good friend of yours and not you.
My 2 cents: Visit your folks w/a one-way ticket and get on with your life and treat yourself well. You've tried, you really have, but there is a point where you just have to walk away for yourself. This is not healthy.

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No you don't but nore can you "control" his actions?

That's like a Mum.. I have to stay because you'll be bad..

What about you? I want to stay with my family for a bit, I need time out, to think and evaluate, it's my life as well, care what you do... this isn't always about you, it's about me too?

Your family obviously care about you but they shouldn't be financing him, and how is that the way for a marriage?

They can't continue to help you through together, financially, he can't support you and probably because he spends his whole time being a "child", playing games, on a computer, drinking with mates, no responsibilities..

That's not a future.

I would go to your parents and have a real deep thought over all of this sweet.

Sorry.

CW

Earlier I was going to comment that I don't know how adults even have that much time for porn, internet and gaming but now that I see her parents are financing his lifestyle...I totally get it.

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[CHANDLERS WISH]

I've made his life 100 times better, he wouldn't risk loosing a roomate like me, cleaning, cooking, supporting.

Amen...

You can see that now can you?

Not only that, no offense again BUT, your PARENTS are supporting him, because of their love for you... That's no way to treat your parents either, it's their life, their money and they should use it now for them.

Accept it's not working, accept he can get out, accept that you do it your way not his way, waiting for some order that you are not going to get use out of, it's him who is waiting for it, to ensure he gets it and WHO paid for it? MMM?

Get angry, but realise that your better off.

CW

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