[WildChild]

It all comes down to finding someone you are really compatible with doesn't it? It seems that most of us just settle. If I settle and you settle and neither of us are with someone who really appreciates and wants what we have and who we are, then we don't have any chance of finding a relationship that isn't settling but is what we really need.

We have women who complain that they prefer a larger man and women who complain that the man they are with is too large. As long as they all hold on under the assumption that something between miserable and not quite right is as good as it gets, nobody is actually happy. There are plenty of men who prefer women with smaller breasts or just don't care about breast size but as long as women hold on to the idea that breast size is a major issue and they are lacking, they aren't going to be a whole lot of fun.

The combination of poor self esteem, settling and a poor understanding of sex and arousal makes for a pretty miserable combo.

[Guest]

Nothing gets by you CW.

[Texinator]

but as long as women hold on to the idea that breast size is a major issue and they are lacking, they aren't going to be a whole lot of fun.

Yup, small breasts aren't unattractive, it's the lack of self esteem that's a turn off.

Small bewbies + high self esteem > big tatas + low self esteem

I'd imagine the same applies the other way around. What fun is a guy that whines about his penis size?

[randomguy2011]

Yes that seems to be it!!!^^^^

Had a GF with breast implants. They were fantastic but thats a different story. She got them because she was very small and very self conscious about them. She was very unconfident with herself physically. So she got the implants and now had perky D cups that were good enough for the cover of playboy. Surprise surprise, still self conscious.

Point is that how a women carries herself and her self esteem is more much sexy than a big pair of boobs. Truth is I never had a problem with her before or after. My problem is that she didn't have enough confidence to open up to me.

A little further into the discussion about men. I think some women have average or small size breasts but they are perfectly portioned and are much better than bigger ones. I'm guessing its similar for women. An average size penis that is straight, portioned right and general pleasing to see is better than a large penis that is bent a bit and unproportional.

[WildChild]

Yes that seems to be it!!!^^^^

. An average size penis that is straight, portioned right and general pleasing to see is better than a large penis that is bent a bit and unproportional.

Nah, not an issue, not as long as it works!
I've been with a few men who had, shall we say, anomalies, like a really big head in proportion the shaft, or bent and sometimes that is just perfect to hit The spot. What works for one woman may just not do it for another, we are all just little different. That's why we need to really do some looking and exploring and trying out, to find what is just right for our special individual selves. If makes you cum like crazy its beautiful.

[Guest]

jemiesranova, I really hope you don't have a penis as you look like a very feminine woman! !!

[Guest]

Cha ching! My thoughts exactly Thomas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[kristalyn_04]

I'm sure she meant the penis of her partner lol.

[jns]

I'm sure she meant the penis of her partner lol.

She is just taking ownership of her partner's penis. I like the confidence.

[depresssed]

Men have even less of a reason to worry than women. All but the most oversized clothes will show the outline of her breasts, but penises aren't put on every day display like that. Imagine if everyone could see the outline of your penis. While it's flaccid. Many "growers" would never leave the house. "I swear it's not this small when it's erect!" LMAO

Perfect point, Tex. If women could see just how small your penis is when they first meet you, then they could reject you on first sight. Saves a lot of time and agony. Just commit sideways now and get it over with?

Get it yet? The clear point of your message is that size really matters but you shouldn't worry about it. OK, I'm driving down a mountain and my brakes are history. You think the answer is to just get over it.