[kristalyn_04]

Perfect point, Tex. If women could see just how small your penis is when they first meet you, then they could reject you on first sight. Saves a lot of time and agony. Just commit sideways now and get it over with?

Get it yet? The clear point of your message is that size really matters but you shouldn't worry about it. OK, I'm driving down a mountain and my brakes are history. You think the answer is to just get over it.

Whoa, dude... that is not what Tex is saying at all. He's referring to the (unnecessary) insecurity many men have over their size, and would be even more sensitive to their insecurity if their size were on display. Tex often uses humor to get his point across, but he's not at all saying that size matters and you should just get over it. I think the message of this entire thread has been that size does NOT matter and those that have insecurities need to change their mindset and attitude about it. I would say that it's not someone's size that causes the problems in a relationship, it's the person's insecurities about it that is causing problems. Have we not gotten through to you at all?

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Ah but, depressed has just joined so how does he know Tex's humor?

Tex's statement whilst amusing is contradicting the whole thread, oops, now you see my size, I swear it's a lot bigger, there is irony in depressed statement

[kristalyn_04]

Ah but, depressed has just joined so how does he know Tex's humor?

Tex's statement whilst amusing is contradicting the whole thread, oops, now you see my size, I swear it's a lot bigger, there is irony in depressed statement

I know, CW, that depressed wouldn't yet know us here, that's why I was trying to explain what Tex meant by that as he obviously misinterpreted it. After all the discussion we've had about his "problem", none of what we have been trying to say to him seems to have sunk in.

[jns]

Men have even less of a reason to worry than women. All but the most oversized clothes will show the outline of her breasts, but penises aren't put on every day display like that. Imagine if everyone could see the outline of your penis. While it's flaccid. Many "growers" would never leave the house. "I swear it's not this small when it's erect!" LMAO

Another advantage for those good at "fish stories" if their of the grower sort.

[Texinator]

Get it yet? The clear point of your message is that size really matters

Size does matter.

But only to the people who worry about it. Get that yet?

That was the point. Many men would never leave the house, not because there are women out there who would reject them, but because those men would be so paralyzed by their own insecurities.

[depresssed]

Oh, I get Tex's humor and all. Hilarious! It's like telling a harelip joke to a guy with a
cleft palate and wondering why he's not cracking up. Like being lectured to on the horror of guns and the lecturer says, "and if you don't listen to me I'm going to have to shoot you."

[spurzzz]

Size does matter.

But only to the people who worry about it. Get that yet?

That was the point. Many men would never leave the house, not because there are women out there who would reject them, but because those men would be so paralyzed by their own insecurities.

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But what if a few partners have said that one has a small penis? Surely then it becomes a problem?

There is no point(no pun intended) in telling urself its not a problem if it clearly is.....for example a 4 inch thin penis is not really going to do a man's confidence any good for starters.....and then to be told its small from various sources is just a kick in the bollocks??

Ok sure he can find someone who will appreciate him for him and not his penis great BUT the fact remains he will not be able to get a girl to orgasm through penetration alone and it will in the back of his mind hurt him.....not an experienced girl anyway

I think it also depends on the woman. If she has had a lot of partners then she will know what to compare it to and if she is experienced with bigger willy's then a 4 inch small then she is not gonna like it one bit - faking orgasms?

Then you introduce a dildo? That right there can't do a dejected mans confidence any good surely? "Oh screw you dude, i need a bigger !" And what if she orgasms from this?..........that guy will be reeling inside if he is insecure

Porn is inevitably to blame for all this penis . Big penis everywhere, big and big asses, u rarely find a small penis in a porn movie. The industry pollutes the mind and changes the way we think about things especially sex in a big way ----------- ok why not pun intended! The guys get hooked on this idea of big willies and turn to porn to fantasise about how that guy is soo cool with his big willy and women do love it big........... they look at themselves and think no way im a joke. BANG Insecurity! BANG little sex with missus, more porn! People are getting more pleasure jerking off to scenarios like these; Big penis dude shafting that pizza delivery girl with ponytails/Big penis dudes double pen girls in schoolgirls outfits - oh wait they are in the secondary schools locker rooms too! rather and wait for it have sex with their partners.............can anyone please tell me why we have a significant rise in Rapists, child molesters and underage sex since the introduction of hard core porn not to mention shows like Jeremy kyle and Jerry Springer having a field day

If i wanted to go deep into .... this topic.....i would even go as far as saying that its all a system of control designed to occupy our minds with needless about size and image that we so desperately want. So the majority of men will grow up worrying about their size, how many partners he has had, women the same respectively with Breasts etc and the amount of thought we dedicate to such matters and not just live our lives for crying out loud is unbelievable. Distraction from what is really going on in the world around us and many of us are as blind as a bat.

We are no longer happy with the way we are created and do not appreciate the life that we have and thats a problem.

Marriage. a long term stable relationship and kids having both their parents to grow up with in the same loving household is a punishable crime nowadays.

Back to penis talk: we are living in a society where it is common to think about size so what does the guy do if he knows he has a small penis as described earlier.....

He can just accept it and hopefully find a girl who either does orgasm from it or is not so experienced with men so will not be able to compare

Excercises that apparently work out there, why not?

Or buy equipment and try try try

Or become a bodybuilder. They are notorious to have small penis's due to obvious factors and i dont think many women will tell them they have a small teeny weeny!

Im off to the gym, i know what one im picking boys!

[ItsASecret]

There is no point(no pun intended) in telling urself its not a problem if it clearly is.....for example a 4 inch thin penis is not really going to do a man's confidence any good for starters.....and then to be told its small from various sources is just a kick in the bollocks??

Sure it can hurt his ego, if he lets it. If he pays attention to others that say it does not matter than he is not going to be consumed by what he believes defines a "good" penis.

BUT the fact remains he will not be able to get a girl to orgasm through penetration alone and it will in the back of his mind hurt him.....not an experienced girl anyway

If he assumes that all girls will react the same way to certain size during sex then yeah he is going to believe that he cannot make a girl orgasm. If he chooses to follow the path of not all women are the same then he can succeed in making her orgasm if she is a woman who does achieve orgasm through penetration.

If she has had a lot of partners then she will know what to compare it to and if she is experienced with bigger willy's then a 4 inch small then she is not gonna like it one bit - faking orgasms?

Comparing absolutely, but assuming that she cares about that comparison is his problem not her problem. A woman is not blind to the fact that the penis comes in a variety of size. 8 inches is bigger than 4, she gets that and he does too. Having a smaller penis does not equate a worse sexual experience. If he assumes she makes that kind of comparison then sure he can also assume that she will be faking it because he has convinced himself that only that one outcome of big = better is true. It may not be what the woman is thinking though, but to a man who does not believe anything is true except for his select subset of bigger = better her opinion does not matter, it cannot be true to him that she loves whatever size she is being exposed to.

Then you introduce a dildo? That right there can't do a dejected mans confidence any good surely? "Oh screw you dude, i need a bigger !" And what if she orgasms from this?..........that guy will be reeling inside if he is insecure

And if the dildo is of average size? Like so many are?

The guys get hooked on this idea of big willies and turn to porn to fantasise about how that guy is soo cool with his big willy and women do love it big........... they look at themselves and think no way im a joke. BANG Insecurity! BANG little sex with missus, more porn! People are getting more pleasure jerking off to scenarios like these; Big penis dude shafting that pizza delivery girl with ponytails/Big penis dudes double pen girls in schoolgirls outfits - oh wait they are in the secondary schools locker rooms too! rather and wait for it have sex with their partners.

If a guy focuses on size than yeah he will believe the world is out to crush him because he is not a Pringles can penis.

Same can be said for porn and men believing that an airbrushed Sweedish porn model with extensive plastic surgery is the ultimate in what a woman should be. Some men believe that porn depicts exactly how any woman should act because the fantasy is oh so amazing to them, they believe their wife gf SO should be a screaming banshee ready and willing to spread and act like the angry faced seizure bouncing models depicted on the screen. Then they try those porn actions out and realize their SO, wife, gf does not act like that so they get upset that the fantasy is not real and choose the computer screen over their own SO because the fantasy world will give those actions anytime all the time. Porn has polluted the judgment of more than just oversized penis satisfaction.

We are no longer happy with the way we are created and do not appreciate the life that we have and thats a problem.

This is what vanity has done and it is not going to disappear anytime soon.

[jns]

I think Tex is all right.

I suppose I could get all upset because I have a penis that extends somewhere between 5 and 6 inches these days because I am overweight, have diabetes and have ED. Actually, since it is a non issue because I don't care. I suppose I could have got upset when I was younger because I would be missing out on all those hot relationships in the future because of a penis shorter than the average male porn star. Gosh, I missed that one. But the fact is after many years I can honestly say that that was never, I repeat, never an issue. And I have enough sex these days. Sure, I would like more at times, but many are in the same boat.

I suppose I could worry about every little detail in my life and make a big deal about it, but I don't. I saw a guy do that, obsessing about everything he took in. He was never happy. If he would have listened, I would have told him to get therapy, psychological help or psychiatric help. But he was the type who wouldn't listen, so I saved my breath.

God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.
From the Serenity Prayer by Reinhold Niebuhr.

I've been with some women so tight and small, I think I would have hurt them if I had a penis better suited to an equine. I suppose some guys with big ones would have plowed ahead anyway, which tell a lot about their personalities. But I have never had a woman complain about lack of size. I suppose I am not good at picking those "winners".

[Texinator]

But what if a few partners have said that one has a small penis? Surely then it becomes a problem?

The only real problem might be his choice in partners.

You can always find someone that will judge you based on a stupid reason. Men who don't measure up to some size queen's high expectations. Women who don't measure up to some peckerhead's breast fantasies. Likewise, women who are considered inferior by sexists, minorities who are considered inferior by racists and xenophobes, and so forth. I bring up the latter two, because "size discrimination" is as absurd as gender or racial discrimination.

I'm sure someone out there dislikes me for no other reason that I'm Texan and they have a problem with Southerners, thinking we're all doing meth in our trailers and banging our sisters. But I don't care about those opinions, because they aren't backed by logic, just by stupidity.

The average penis is 5 to 7 inches in length. Again, please someone explain to me which part of a woman's anatomy can be stimulated only by a penis that is longer than that?

Anyone? I'm waiting...

Before I pass out from holding my breath, let me point out that many women start to experience discomfort with someone who is longer than seven inches, because getting smacked in the cervix isn't any fun.

Below five inches, if a woman feels less stimulation, it is only because the penis is thinner, not because it is shorter. But don't forget that a vagina is extremely versatile. It can hold something as thin as a tampon or pass something as wide as a baby being born. And the more aroused she is... and the more engorged with blood - and therefore, the more sensitive - her genitals, the more likely she is going to receive pleasure from any size penis.

Not that five inches is some magical number below which she experiences less pleasure and above which she experiences more. That's why I said "if a woman feels less stimulation." I used that number because it is the lower "end point" of the range of average penis size.