[Bladyn'smommy16]

You use to send those kind of messages for fun?

[Guest]

ya i do that , and finally i ll say her i love her n things like that , why what is the big deal? imagine u dont know the affair (barely u can call it) n read those lines BM16

[Bladyn'smommy16]

If she knows that you usually send those type of messages then I think she might know something.. Just from what you have told us it sounds like she might know something went on.. And I call it an affair because I'm not sure what else to call it..

[Guest]

hi BM 16

she has the fear because she might think that would be the normal course of events from her experience. i m telling u againg she said

"In this situation if the guy was someone else he would have developed an affair, but because its u my husband n lover u would not do that, and in case u have done that i vr to digest it coz im also partly responsible for it and i can't help it , thats work pressure"

she just said the statement but she ll not accept or digest it i know. ok??

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I call that "playing with someone's mind".

When you say fun, you mean to hurt to make her think, to want you, to give you more passion consequently "sex". Off course she then got defensive and talked about affairs and marriage and just want you wanted, guilt.

Don't play games they do not work .

[Guest]

hi CW,
actually i was about to tell her something else

the following truth

the feel when im inside her ( u got what i mean) when she gets her 1 st orgasm is far more sensational than when im inside her when she gets her 3 rd orgasm.

this is what i was about to tell i promise and i said that to her after she spoke

now u

[Guest]

CV pls read these lines together

" hey i wanna tell u something , but i dont know how to tell , but i cant tell u over phone but only in person and i dont know how u will react "

the feel when im inside u ( u got what i mean) when u get ur 1 st orgasm is far more sensational than when im inside u when u gets the 3 rd orgasm.

[Guest]

i m not playing games anymore with insecure people,

Morning i found 4 or 5 lingeries in my dressing cupboard i bought for her may be 6 months or 1 year ago and gave it to her and told i m not buying her anymore lingeries or h__hh__ls, n she need not sacrifice anything for me n my fetish unwillingly n if sex happens it ll happen only when she needs( even if it is once a year or once in 2 years) and in the regular style only n no more fetishes

i assured her that i ll reduce my sex drive n i wont get into any sort of affair so she can concentrate on her duties

[Guest]

and pls dont forget that " i love her so much " but right now i can't take this anymore,

i know i have done something wrong or blunder or emotional cheating or whatever

i think we have dicussed enough n i assure this affair or unwilling sex between us wont happen again

u dont ve to discuss on this,

thanks for everything

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Whoa, erm.

Ok...

So firstly I read the lines together.

So when exactly did she talk about affairs and her lack of sex with you? In-between?

Are you now telling us that she has "told" you she will have sex when she wants and only when she wants even if that is once a year?

And, you have decided to kill your sex drive ( I read that on another thread here too) in order to comply, or compromise?

Tell me that is not so.