[Guest]

for her job comes first kids second, no no kids first, job second, house cleaning third, .........4th, ..........5th..........6th............7th......... ..8th...................9th............husband may be ateast 100th..

i cant have sex with her (atleast this weekend) coz im terribly upset ( whatever she said is true or not )

and i knw things may change but now im upset

and i always believe sex is between 2 loving minds(hearts) not between sex organs so i cant perform the art, im upset. thats it

im very very happy with my kids n profession,

im not cryin for help, im just blurting out, thats all

[CHANDLERS WISH]

It's good that admits that she is only offering you 5% of what constitutes a good relationship, intimately.

However, a person should not assume that you would not leave her, therefore, she can continue as she has. Yet, she thinks to herself, that she is not offering enough "love" to you and she knows you won't leave but she hopes you don't have an affair.

So what she is "missing" to say, is "how do we fix this?" .

When you get into a rutt, it is very difficult to get out of. You give the impression that she accepts your fetish, embrasses it. Do you think that she does or that she pretends and this is why she does not want sex?

I am glad you have not spoken to her friend (since) joining WH. Well done and congratulations..

[Bladyn'smommy16]

Wow.. Just wow but why would she say that if she didnt possiblely think something was going on?

[Guest]

hi CW ,

1) You give the impression that she accepts your fetish, embrasses it. Do you think that she does or that she pretends and this is why she does not want sex?

embrasses? i dont think so. even if so she shud have told me i can't do mind reading but i know when i do she enjoys.
and i do need the fetish thing every time we have sex, may be 30% or 40% . thats all. and if she says there is no time for that i just do the usual thing,
it is not that i have such a great fetish that i cum during or after the fetish and go to sleep...

FETISHES ARE NICE TO START but THEY ARE NEVER NEAR PENETRATIVE SEX - i know very well.

i had asked her several times, but i will ask her one more time, if she is not comfortable I wont coz

i always believe sex is between 2 loving minds(hearts) not between sex organs

[Guest]

hi BM16

i think she has fears

[Guest]

hi CW ,

1) You give the impression that she accepts your fetish, embrasses it. Do you think that she does or that she pretends and this is why she does not want sex?

embrasses? i dont think so. even if so she shud have told me i can't do mind reading but i know when i do she enjoys.
and i DON'T need the fetish thing every time we have sex, may be 30% or 40% . thats all. and if she says there is no time for that i just do the usual thing,
it is not that i have such a great fetish that i cum during or after the fetish and go to sleep...

FETISHES ARE NICE TO START but THEY ARE NEVER NEAR PENETRATIVE SEX - i know very well.

i had asked her several times, but i will ask her one more time, if she is not comfortable I wont coz

i always believe sex is between 2 loving minds(hearts) not between sex organs

[Bladyn'smommy16]

I feel like she might be thinking something is going on because of what she said to you..

[Guest]

dont understand BM16

[Bladyn'smommy16]

I'm saying how did that subject of she wouldn't blame you for having an affair come up? Was it unprovoked if so then she suspects something already has happened or is happening..

[Guest]

I was sending her some text sms like
" hey i wanna tell u something , but i dont know how to tell , but i cant tell u over phone but only in person and i dont know how u will react "
just like that i sent sms.

so she called and said those things

i used to do this for fun