[Guest]

I'm trying to tell you that you asked us "women" for our opinions. We've given you our opinions. You've discounted each opinion and told us were nuts (ismw). So, why should we bother giving you the time and effort to write our thoughts and opinions down, when you have already made up your mind that our opinions are wrong.

We can only discuss our point of view. We cannot speak for any individual you asked previously.

So, I for one think further conversation should be closed unless you can objectively discuss what we are saying and gain some insight from the female perspective.

I just asked a simple question. And you already gave me the answer. 'You are on the small side'.

People seemed to digress into relationship dynamics and what my actual personality was like outside sex. But Ive been trying to explain and illustrate with statement and stories that the actual relationships, outside sex, were very fulfilling and we clicked well.

The question I asked was a specific, anatomical question.

Yes, I understand that your view on sex and relationships goes beyond penis size, but that is of course, your perspective. And even you say I fall on the small side. Women I was with cited it as an issue, whereas you mightn't inherently see it as one. That's what I'm getting at.

My partners often said, basically, 'your penis is small for me'.

My question was, do I fall on the small size to most women? Ie. Would the majority of women find my particular size to be on the small side, and therefore not as stimulating as if I were larger.

I got my answer.

I am on the small side. It's not an insecurity, it's a fact.

As far as the rest of the interaction went with my partners and I, it was fine.

I just want to be on the right side of the fence here and be sure, from a general answer, that my penis is either small, average or large. Then I won't have the same false hope that it will always be sufficient, as I've had before. I've put it down, in the past, as a given that it wasn't and issue and wouldn't be an issue, but my partners have proved that wrong.

I then asked myself, well, is their view merited? Is this going to be the general consensus; that I'm on the smaller side. And again, I got my answer to that.

What many people seem to be rightly saying is that many women dont get orgasm from intercourse anyway, and that sex is much more than penis size.

Which is fine. And that's good. BUT, penis size has been an issue in MY relationships.

And I don't want to get too hopeful knowing that I fall on the under-average size of the fence and there are men out there able to give PENETRARIVE pleasure to women at a greater level than I am.

It's hardly fair to berate me for coming here, having been put down because of an anatomical issue, and wanting to make sure that what these women told me was true or not; that I fall on the small end of things.

If I meet another women who I am in love with, I will love her. I will look after her and of course I willtry my best in order to make her happy and to please her to the best of my ability.

But I just want to be sure whether or not my genital dimensions are going to be generally unsatisfactory for the purpose that they were created for.

It won't take away from the fact that I will give it a hundred percent, but I just wont put it down as a given that my manhood is 'just right', because it's not.

[Guest]

What im saying is. If it were the average thickness. Then it's suitable for most women.

But since it's on the small side, the average woman is much more likely to find it to be on the small side.

Whether or not they will make an issue of it is entirely up to them. I just know that plenty of women already have.

Do you understand?

[BabyGirl]

Claret is correct.
You asked ( not quoting your first entire post as it's Redundant and only partial quotes from the 7 pages of posts. )
but only the important parts I'm responding to .

I know some girls prefer humongous penises (and also believe that if other women tried them they would too) and some girls are fine with average, but just gimme it straight, is my penis too thin for my woman to enjoy the finalé?

Operative word here is " Some ". Pay attention here , Most of the people here say it is not Important to Them ..
Only the women you have a relationship with can tell you if it is too thin, for Them. We cannot tell you if it is too thin for us. Because we will never be in the position to have sex with you .

I as others have noticed that you have made some statements that seem contradictory .

When I meet a woman, as always, and decide to go into something, it wont be sex or breast size I choose her on. It'll be who she is

Then why are you here asking us if the Size of your Penis is an Issue with Internet Strangers/Women ?
It's the Size of your heart that will count with Most Women.

Let me put it more plainly.
If I put my penis inside you, with all the size that it is, would you feel stimulated enough to carry on?
Most women say that's a no.

Most women here on WH say it doesn't matter to us. And most Men on here are telling you other ways that they may have great Relationships with Women, even if they aren't Porn Star Stud Size. But you are not "Listening ".

I just wanted someone my size, or a wife of someone my size, to come along and say 'i dont even think about it'.

Right in that Statement, you are Judging and Negating your Chances of finding one who will " Fit in the Sexual aspects of your mind ".
... Using a" Woman of Your Size."
You are being Shallow yourself, saying in essence that the shorter smaller of Statue women are not what you are looking for. Though that was the only sexual relationship that you felt a " Big Man " with. You want one your size. And you want them to not care about your Penis Size.
Can you see where in that Statement you are taking out a good 1/3rd of the Worlds Female population. ?
That if she is smaller of Stature and not your SIZE, she is not one you are going to be looking for ?

Some one woman who thinks like me.

Because i dont care if the person i love has big breasts, small breasts, wide hips, small hips, has straight teeth, doesnt have straight teeth, wears make up, doesnt wear make up, drives or doesnt drive, has money or doesnt, farts in bed or not.

I dont care one bit.

Her personality really is everything. The way she looks at me or how she smiles at jokes that arent funny. Those kind of things. Things where you know youre right for each other. Thats what really matters to me.

It doesnt matter whether her vagina is big, small, red, pink, or whether she has spots, freckles, bones showing or curves.

It all means nothing.

That is a Great Attitude, except You Do Care.
You care more about if your Penis is too Thin, than you do Trying to just be you, Date, Seek, Find and then always find the wrong " Type " of Women. Because you want one your Size.

As I said .. Try dating, take Months to have the Sex you want. Months of getting to know the Woman . Then Sex should not be an Issue . When all the other Pieces of the Puzzle are Connected and if you are as attentive as you say, you will find a way around your Self Induced " Handicap ". A " Handicap " in your mind.

And Yes, that Woman/ Wife, just may be Your Size, then again she may not be ..

Counseling may be best for you, to get over your " Size " issue and accept yourself as who you are. What you were " Born With " . Something is wrong, but I doubt seriously it is the Size of your Penis ..

Look at the "Penis Bouquet ". Again, see there are many bigger, thicker, thinner, shorter and all different Colors . I said do Not Compare, last time, But this time, Compare and find you are Probably, fairly Average.

If you want help. part of accepting Help, is Listening, not blocking out things you do not want to hear.

Good luck to you.

[Claret]

I just asked a simple question. And you already gave me the answer. 'You are on the small side'. .

Please re-read what I wrote - here I copied it for you - "As to your original post, you ask if you are you on the small side of things, I'd say yes you are but not where you think, (Is this what you want to hear?) But, just remember that women don't think a large penis can make up for a small or closed mind."

What this says is not that you have a small penis, rather that you have a small mind. If you open up your mind to other opinions and points of view you may have a better rapport with future partners.

[Guest]

Claret is correct.
You asked ( not quoting your first entire post as it's Redundant and only partial quotes from the 7 pages of posts. )
but only the important parts I'm responding to .


Operative word here is " Some ". Pay attention here , Most of the people here say it is not Important to Them ..
Only the women you have a relationship with can tell you if it is too thin, for Them. We cannot tell you if it is too thin for us. Because we will never be in the position to have sex with you .

I as others have noticed that you have made some statements that seem contradictory .


Then why are you here asking us if the Size of your Penis is an Issue with Internet Strangers/Women ?
It's the Size of your heart that will count with Most Women.



Most women here on WH say it doesn't matter to us. And most Men on here are telling you other ways that they may have great Relationships with Women, even if they aren't Porn Star Stud Size. But you are not "Listening ".



Right in that Statement, you are Judging and Negating your Chances of finding one who will " Fit in the Sexual aspects of your mind ".
... Using a" Woman of Your Size."
You are being Shallow yourself, saying in essence that the shorter smaller of Statue women are not what you are looking for. Though that was the only sexual relationship that you felt a " Big Man " with. You want one your size. And you want them to not care about your Penis Size.
Can you see where in that Statement you are taking out a good 1/3rd of the Worlds Female population. ?
That if she is smaller of Stature and not your SIZE, she is not one you are going to be looking for ?


That is a Great Attitude, except You Do Care.
You care more about if your Penis is too Thin, than you do Trying to just be you, Date, Seek, Find and then always find the wrong " Type " of Women. Because you want one your Size.

As I said .. Try dating, take Months to have the Sex you want. Months of getting to know the Woman . Then Sex should not be an Issue . When all the other Pieces of the Puzzle are Connected and if you are as attentive as you say, you will find a way around your Self Induced " Handicap ". A " Handicap " in your mind.

And Yes, that Woman/ Wife, just may be Your Size, then again she may not be ..

Counseling may be best for you, to get over your " Size " issue and accept yourself as who you are. What you were " Born With " . Something is wrong, but I doubt seriously it is the Size of your Penis ..

Look at the "Penis Bouquet ". Again, see there are many bigger, thicker, thinner, shorter and all different Colors . I said do Not Compare, last time, But this time, Compare and find you are Probably, fairly Average.

If you want help. part of accepting Help, is Listening, not blocking out things you do not want to hear.

Good luck to you.

To my first statment. im asking because the women I was with cared. I dont care. They did.

To the second statement. I said 'someone my size' as in a man of my penile size. Not 'a woman of my sizet', indicating that id never go for a small woman (or a tall woman). I dont care what size she is.

If I find a woman who i love, im gonna do my best. It wont be me who makes size an issue.

So I hope youre right.

I hope the next woman that I have feelings for is less concerned with my unit.

[Guest]

What I mean is. i said 'someone of my size', meaning a man my size. And 'the wife of someone my size' meaning that mans wife.

I dont have a preference on height or build.

Perhaps I do have a small mind. But all i know is that it wasnt me that made aesthetics and dimensions an issue.

It was them.

And all I hope is that it doesnt happen in future.

I dont really see what else I can do other than be myself and focus on NON SEXUAL interaction, just as ive always done in relationships.

I dont think you see what ive said. It has never been me that has made size an issue in relationships.

Am i small minded because I dont want to use toys? Is that why you keep calling me that??

I dont see how Im small minded. I love a variety in my sex life. Sofa, kitchen, in the car, dress ups, wearing suits, tongues fingers and lips. Flirty texts. Sometimes rough; sometimes not.

The only thing i wont do is bring big toys in.*

[Guest]

You keep saying i dont have connection or 'rappor', without reading what ive said. Ive told you now, several times; the relationship outside sex was amazing. The foreplay was great.

My penis was an issue to them, not me.

And it makes me less desiring of sex; because women keep giving me grief about anatomy.

Im still gonna do it if I happen to have feelings for someone again. Ive said that too.

But I dont see what else I can do differently.

If you read my posts, some of them show the bond I thought we shared; these partners and I.

There was no issue with the sex, for me. Except that aspects of it are a deal-breaker for HER!!

Do you understand now?

[Guest]

Perhaps in future. My penis size WONT be the deal breaker for her in an otherwise fantastic partnership.

[Guest]

It seems like you're unwilling to admit that any woman could possibly care about dimensions and aesthetics enough to ditch a guy for, because all ive seen is you trying to make out that her anatomical issues with me are somehow lies and it was actually my attitude that was the problem.

Ive told you like eight times; everything was going fine. I communicate with my partners. I try to be as variable in sex as possible. And outside sex, Im a man who is fun and creative and interesting.

[Guest]

Perhaps in future I'll find someone who I click with, who cares about me and who also doesn't make an issue out of size. Perhaps.

And I'll treat her just as well as anyone else that's walked through my door and walked out it.

I dont know whether the partners Ive been with have secretly been size queens, or just want to go and experiment with a big one, or what. But you need to accept this before you continue talking to me; they said it was too small and that was an issue for them. It didnt leave them fulfilled. It was 'spikey'. It 'never touched the sides'. It 'left some room to be explored'.

'Oh my God my last boyfriend had such a chode compared to yours'.

'I used to be scared of big huge penises, but yours is just nice'.

'My exes penis was so big it made me squirt, and it hurt. But yours is just right'.

Other common complaints where 'oh, it took me aminute to find it there'.

'Youre really tall, it makes your penis look small'.

They are not benign compliments. They are ways of backhandedly telling me I dont measure up compared to other guys.

The more subtle way was being rejected during sex, or finishing foreplay, getting her off and then having her say 'im too tired', 'not in the mood anymore', or 'its sore now, let's leave it at that for tonight'.

Of course Id say 'okay'. And the next time 'okay'. And then eventually sex just stopped altogether and lo and behold 'its over'.

Now you tell me if that's small minded??