[Guest]

I dont even count it as an issue in itself mate.

I asked the question as a matter of scientific and anatomic ability. Mines too small to cause friction. Im okay with that.

But im not gonna get with a woman for her to end up screwing her boss cause I cant give her orgasms.
60% of marriages.

Welcome to western society.

''A writer who is also an artist will speak things that others would never dare to reveal''.

Bottom line; choice between two identical men with only penis size as difference; she's gonna go for the bigger guy.

[Guest]

Hence why theres no woman id any longer give the time of day to.

Been through this already.

I asked a simple question, and got pointed in the direction of the simple answer. And you all wanna try and change my mind about the truth.

[Guest]

Its me thats in it for the relationship and women that are in it for the sex, cause that part's always the issue.

[Claret]

"Bottom line; choice between two identical men with only penis size as difference; she's gonna go for the bigger guy".
I disagree, 100% - this is your own view of the world. Please don't label all women as being so shallow and just as not all men will be as shallow and insecure as you are. As to your original post, you ask if you are you on the small side of things, I'd say yes you are but not where you think, (Is this what you want to hear?) But, just remember that women don't think a large penis can make up for a small or closed mind. I wish you luck in your next relationship - try to focus on the person rather than the sex. Be all that you can out of the bedroom and put her first in the day-to-day events. Sex is NOT always the driving force in a relationship.

[Guest]

If you could read; it wasnt me that had the issue with sex, or even focused on it. The person was very much ON my mind. Dont get offended because Im telling it like it is.

It wasnt me who had the issue with sex in these relationships, it was women. I, like I said, took much mkre pleasure and satisfaction from interaction outside the bedroom. Read.

Its hardly insecurity to be told your ******** is too small by several women and to hold that as what your experience has taught you.

Its not insecurity when sex isnt a vital part of a relationship to me; its facing facts.

Again; read.

[Guest]

If you were honest about the content of these forums and with yourself, you'd know penis size matters in intercourse to women; thats what I've seen.

It doesnt to me. Bit it does to women both on polls, forums, health sites, interviews and of course my exes.

What is small minded?? Facing that fact; that I'm small? Not being willing to degrade myself for a woman's primal pleasure

I wouldn't ask a woman to do it. So why should I?

Having a small mind isn't the same as having self respect.

[Guest]

As far as life goes. I'm a very sentimental, creative and heartfelt kind of person. My emotions are often very strong and I hold people I care about in very high regard.

There's a saying that a cynic is simply a broken romantic.

[Guest]

Why do you think im a musician? My view on life is romantic. I enjoy being in love. Things outside the bedroom are what Im very good at. I know how to make my partner feel valued and respected and loved.

I know how to give. My heart isnt black.

Im just pointing out how sexual pleasure seems to sit higher on others' priority lists than it does on mine.

Like I say, im sick of being left and told my penis factored into the decision.

Let me put it more plainly.

If I put my penis inside you, with all the size that it is, would you feel stimulated enough to carry on?

Most women say that's a no.

[Guest]

My first girlfriend was the love of my life. I'd have done anything for that woman. I used to drive 40 miles every night just to spend some time with her once we got serious. I'd book random weekends away and we'd have the most incredible conversations. She would ask me to sing for her and I did. We'd write songs together.

I remember one night picking her up and taking her to a monument on a mountain and we just lay there together looking at the sky.

Im a romantic man. And I did love her, more than anything. More than you can imagine.

Do you know how it feels to be told by your partner that she just wants to 'make a few more mistakes', and then to be told that the size of your penis was always an issue. By someone you cared about so much that if she had grown boils on her face you'd still see her the same way as the day you met?

THAT is shallow.

[Guest]

I came here really already knowing the answer.

I just wanted someone my size, or a wife of someone my size, to come along and say 'i dont even think about it'.

Some one woman who thinks like me.

Because i dont care if the person i love has big breasts, small breasts, wide hips, small hips, has straight teeth, doesnt have straight teeth, wears make up, doesnt wear make up, drives or doesnt drive, has money or doesnt, farts in bed or not.

I dont care one bit.

Her personality really is everything. The way she looks at me or how she smiles at jokes that arent funny. Those kind of things. Things where you know youre right for each other. Thats what really matters to me.

It doesnt matter whether her vagina is big, small, red, pink, or whether she has spots, freckles, bones showing or curves.

It all means nothing.

Id have a conversation over sex any day of the week, because sex always breaks my relationships.