[mr.mansview]

in post #46 monte listed several small breasted women..(must admit i don't know half of them)..guess it's fair to say that none compare physically to pam anderson..what makes them ALL more attractive than her is overall looks and personality..my first gf was tall and large breasted..just what i thot i wanted in a woman..turns out in the long run she was the least attractive woman i ever dated due to affection and personality..mes_t's thread "post pictures of yourself",from a few months ago shows several women here, yourself included who are far hotter from my point of view than the supposed ideal looks of a pam anderson or anna nichol..

sorry sally but i've seen your bikini picture..there is no way i could mistake you for a boy..wanna turns heads when you walk into a room then perhaps it's just your confidence that needs a boost, not your boobs

[rcoreyus]

Sally - I'm being completely honest here. Different men like different things. Some men are attracted to women who look like pin-ups, others are not. Some prefer more healthy looking smaller breasted women (I do). Some like muscular athletic women. Some like tall and thin, others short and rounded. Some like a sort of "butch" look, some like frail, some tall and strong. Fortunately there are billions of women so there is something for everyone.

The same is true for women. Some like muscular body-builders, some slender, some athletic, some short, some hairy, some clean-shaven.

For both men and women, the sensible ones know that appearance isn't the most important thing anyway. Someone who is fun to be with is far superior to someone who is just attractive. After all you are spending time with the person, not having them stand around looking pretty.

Eventually people will get tired of trying to convince you of this. I don't what you to think that it is because they agree with you, but rather that they have just run out of energy.

For the last time I'll say - you are a very attractive woman (I've looked at you picture). You would be doing yourself a terrible disservice by changing your appearance to try to look like a plastic fake. Please don't!

Part of me realizes that somewhere inside, but then another part fights it.
Aren't pin-ups supposed to be like the supreme hot? And like a class all to there self? (honestly asking for a guys perspective b/c I honestly don't know.)

[rcoreyus]

The only thing you are lacking is self-esteem. What do you want out of life?

[Mes T]

I think you're bordering on insulting the men of this world. I also think you have a skewed vision not only of yourself but also of what society is all about. What actually happens on this earth. Do you get out much? If not, that might be part of the problem.

Look rcoreyus is right, eventually everyone is going to get tired of trying to convince you that you're wrong - I think you have a mental issue that just regular folk can't penetrate. I don't recall, did you say you were in counseling? I hope it works out for you, for your sake, and for the sake of the people who are trying to love you.

*hug*

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I never realized but your right I am up and down.. And I wanna get fixed I hate feeling this way all the time. I don't know whats happen to me that I feel like the only way I can be hot is to look like a pin up. I just I have always felt like the ugly duckling and always wanted to be the chick when she walks in a room every guy drools. And I just have always equated that with playmates. I'm just so sick of hating myself and so sick of wanting to die b/c I hate myself so much.

If you don't love yourself no one can love you.

If someone marrys you, they found you attractive, not just your personality.

You shouldn't care what others look like, nor want to look "hot" for "men" to stare at you and go googoo eyes, as your married

You have visions, dreams, goals remember? Stay on that path Sally....

If in your childhood you felt un-loved, the ugly duckling, then let me tell you so did I. How do you rate my picture?

One day, I looked in that mirror and I TOLD MYSELF, actually CW, your quite a catch... I saw me for me FINALLY.. Forgetting what people/family stated.. Forgetting because it's my life...

I realised that it was the way my parents dressed me. The way their "tough love" affected me.

So, I styled my hair, it grew longer, I put on my clothes of my choice and people "googooed" me. Why? Because I realised I was beautiful and in that, the innerself came out and it showed.

It's time to grow your hair... long.... look femine in your small size with lengthy legs that you OWN. And, OWN YOURSELF.

I've seen those photos and so has so many here. You know what we think.

We know what you think but you know what? You do know inside, deep inside, that you actually are pretty otherwise, you wouldn't be so heck bent on venting and trying so hard to get rid of these stupid thoughts and post this thread.

GROW YOUR HAIR
WALK TALL
FOLLOW THAT DREAM / GOAL YOU HAVE

Forget what everyone has told you when you were young, and those whom said whatever, because they were having fun at your expense, they are not the type of people you need/want in your life.

ANYONE that puts you down? Ditch them. They are negative and you need only to be positive and to be around positive people in your life, your young, don't throw it all away because of this world and they types of people in it that can't help themselves but bring people down.

CW

[Haven]

I think you're bordering on insulting the men of this world. I also think you have a skewed vision not only of yourself but also of what society is all about. What actually happens on this earth. Do you get out much? If not, that might be part of the problem.

Look rcoreyus is right, eventually everyone is going to get tired of trying to convince you that you're wrong - I think you have a mental issue that just regular folk can't penetrate. I don't recall, did you say you were in counseling? I hope it works out for you, for your sake, and for the sake of the people who are trying to love you.

*hug*

This is spot-on. Sally, I'm a guy, and to me it seems like your idea of what guys want has become more heavily informed by men's magazines than by actual men. Your ideas of what YOU want don't seem like they came from you, either. You don't want people to like you for who you are - you want them to like you because you look like Playboy Playmate #213,015? Do you really mean that? How long do you think that would last?

The mental issue sounds like body dysmorphic disorder.

[sallyskellington]

I saw the list and personally none of them compare to playmates.

[pretzel]

I saw the list and personally none of them compare to playmates.

I hate to say this, but you're totally missing the point.

Success is not judged by how you look, but how you act and the confidence that comes with knowing that the person inside you is worth every man's desire.

[sallyskellington]

The only thing you are lacking is self-esteem. What do you want out of life?

eventually to either work in a plastic surgeons office doing medical esthetics or long term open up an organic and cruelty free dayspa. Both of which looks are extremely important, due to you there to make other women look and feel better.

[Ashlee T.]

I saw the list and personally none of them compare to playmates.

See how your tune changes from one post to the next? We don't even know who we're going to be talking to when we post to you sweetie. One day its rational Sally that can sort of see things clearly, and then the next day it's irrational Sally that noone even God himself could console.

Can you see that?