[cassie66]

i havent told dad yet simple reason i dont have any time alone where ican ring him without hubby or kids hearing me.

i know he isgoing to ask me to get a dvd player on my store card, whichi never used until asked me too he promised to pay it back himself monthly his mum gives him£60 a month towards paying some bills hubby tells me to use that to pay store card, so in fact he is not actually paying it, his mum is!
he still blames hismum for not doing as she was told! and selling her home when he said! not cosof the recession she was unable to and rents it, thus hubby not got a slice of sale so he cannotpay off hiscredit card/loan she got one offer but was low soshe turned it down and rented it, but hubby says she should have took the low offer and given him £20k! he thinks cos he lived there all his life and paid rent to her he is entitled to a a share of any money she gets!
shegotmarried and moved to the nest town, approx 18miles away. he relied on her too much
she did everything for him, cooked him food and put it in freezer so all he ahd to do was reheat it!

he spends far to long on pc
he sbeen saying insulting things tome too although claims you no i dnt mean it etc
like your tummy is getting big again!

he knows i have alittle over 2k left in bank. im still waiting for arefund from holiday company that went bust.
he s never wore his new glasses yet, but created such a fuss about them at the time!

[cassie66]

i will try and write a cv although it wontlook great i never went to university

[CHANDLERS WISH]

he still blames hismum for not doing as she was told! and selling her home when he said! not cosof the recession she was unable to and rents it, thus hubby not got a slice of sale so he cannotpay off hiscredit card/loan she got one offer but was low soshe turned it down and rented it, but hubby says she should have took the low offer and given him £20k! he thinks cos he lived there all his life and paid rent to her he is entitled to a a share of any money she gets!

Frigg... So see? He is this way full stop... She gives him $60Lbs through guilt love.

Okay 1) copy what I wrote regarding your resume sweet, that's why I wrote it and type it out yourself you can do that.

2) move those funds into another account create a new one ok? And fib and say that you had to help your kids with stuff... So if he tries to access there is nothing there can you do that?

3) Go to a phone box and say you are going for a walk to lose that fat *haha* pig sorry .... and talk to your Dad.

4) I am so mad that I want to scream.

5) I told you , she Mothered him gave all and is pleased that she doesn't have to deal with it any more hense the money and hense why she moved away, doesn't have to deal with it.

I am so sorry you got caught up with this loser, so, so, sorry.

But as I said, do NOT spend another cent and I want a promise here and that you are listening and will follow through because all I am saying will ensure 1) you have money, (even if he goes mental at you), time to lie, 2) will provide you with a resume without, you won't get a job and 3) we are working a plan to help you if you don't take it we will have to resign from helping only support your feelings and what a waste..

CW

[cassie66]

thanks of course i accept your help of a resume

i will say no ok i ljust say we cannt spare any cash

why do i always fall for a wrong one?

no sex agiansaid he wastired and ached all over

i have 2 bank accounts one for every day use the other m savings i cannot move it until he is at work as he would follow me

[cassie66]

he s spent the last 4 hours trying tofix the dvd player still not working so far today he hasnt asked me for anything

im on pc he s not looking what im doing
ive ben writng ideas etc for job/what to say etc

i just hope he never finds this webpage

[rcoreyus]

Cassie - be careful, unless you really know how to erase all tracks, he can track what you have posted. On the other hand, he probably couldn't figure out how to track you anyway. (and what can he do that is worse than he is doing already - if he ever hits you, be sure to go to the police immediately and have him locked up). Otherwise what could he possible do - leave? that would be doing you a favor.

Since you have a computer, you can teach yourself some useful job skills. Are you good with microsoft word and excel? If not, get a book and learn them. Get a book on web-page design (its really easy these days). Try to pick up a grab-bag of skills that would be useful in a lot of jobs .

[WildChild]

Good points R. Cassie do you know how to clean out your history? You should be able to get books from the library on Office 2007, Vista, Access, PowerPoint, Web Page Design and start practicing. Every company has different ways of doing things but it's good to be familiar with them.

Make sure you keep this site so that you have to enter a password everytime - no being remembered. How is your resume coming, you may want to conside doing one that focuses on skills and competentcies rather than the old fashioned where, what and when type.

[cassie66]

hi all

[CHANDLERS WISH]

HAHA

Hi sweet... I know there's more, you lost the post hey...

CW

[cassie66]

just testing my pc asits been playing up this is the 3rd attempt to post a message lol

im feeling quite distressed thismorning, hubby had a tantru last night

he suggested we have an early night, so heres me getting all excited lol he put the tv on!
anyway he said i could play with him, so i did, but after 5 mins he said stop mits obvious its not geoing to get hard you should be grateful i let you touch it!
so i asked himto touch me, he started ranting and raving about how disgustig and dirty it was, i got upset, he said live with it or if your n ot happy find somone who is!

so he turned over and moved his pillows 6 inches across the bed from me, got a dressing gowb blet and made an imaginary line down the middle and said dnt infringe on my space! he has done/said that many times before!

soi lay there unable to sleep thinking, i was so temped to get up and go, as i have many times before, buut thatwould have been the cowards way out
i have 4 cats 3 kids and 99% of the stuff in thiis house is mine, plus i paid the bond/deposit on thisplace its my money

my resume iscoming along, slowly, but ican only do it when heis not sitting next to me(most of the time)

impretty useless on apc, iknow basic stuff. kids better than i.
yes i can delete historry and idelete any messages hubby is pc expert

i feel drained