[cassie66]

well he came home last night moaning that he had been given all the bad laptops not my fault there all shared out you get what you get he said he does a bodge job on the ones that yake ages as some you have to wait for parts to come in. every one he sends out as fixed and if they come back again still faulty 7,50 is deducted from your wages he knows this and says her couldnt be bothered
he s on at me to book him into the hairdressers he wants a trim. i dnt have the money at the moment, yet he keeps going on ring them up, only cos he is scared to ring himself. he s like that with everything says you ring/talk to them etc it is annoying

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Offer to cut his hair, and then shave it all off......

(only joking)

It's another not "have to have" Cassie, stick to telling him that, he'll work it out eventually.

How's the job hunting going?

CW

[cassie66]

he s left early to fix someones printer b4 work
ive put an add in local supermarket advertising dog walking service. maybe id be better placing an add in local paper, but im not sure how much that would cost.
ive been applying everywhere its soo frustrating and to top it all his mother keeps phoning up going on about a meal with her family this weekend its hert first anniversary sunday and she agreed to have a joint meal withmy dad as its his birthday too she keeps changing her mind, saying its sat night now, but my dad cant come then as his freind has had a heart attack and he is visiting. my dad as its his birthday wants to go to a place near where he was born, says he wants to reminiss etc but his mum now saying you cant expect her sisiters dad etc to go that far its no further so we at a stalemate as we have no money and my dad is paying for me and him for the meal, so you see wha i mean! i heard her on phone to him blaming me! saying im complaining! no i wasnt! personly id say just go with my dad, now she ringing round to see if her sisiters will go elsewhere. i dont need this. id rather just see my dad not riks family.

[WildChild]

Cassie
Checkout Craigslist. Just put Craigslist Chesterfield in your search engine and it should come up. It is a free online advertising service. Check out the cost for the newspaper. Will your computer software let you print business cards? If not you can get a free download for this. You can get sheets of blank business cards in a package at most department stores or office supply stores - they very reasonable. Make yourself some business cards. Have your name, phone and email and Dog Walking and Pet Care. You can also print 1/4 sheet notices to hand people. You might want to set up a set email, something like yahoo or hotmail, that is free, just for your business. Use your business name in the email. All that will help you look more professional.

[cassie66]

thanks wc thats a great idea. i shall look for that i have a printer. i only thought of the ad in the supermarket and local paper not sure if i l get any replies

i heard from travel company today now there saying they need proof that i didnt use the booked tickets lol as if! i never had them so i ahve emailed them to confirm i didnt use the tickets lets hope i get my money soon

[cassie66]

w c
craigslist chesterfeild is american. but i have found quite a few similar ones here i can use. im going into town later to see about getting some cards printed as you suggested. wehave no card or ink in the printer, so i may as well look in town

he was on about his so called sores this morning wanting me to rub cream all over it! he has just left for work, he is unshaven and scruffy. ive given up asking his to tidy up why should i bother anymore he never took any notice anyway

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Ah, why? WC will say the same love.

DON'T rub stuff into his....................it's another PLOY sweet....you know a CON.... "you touch his,um, he wins, he remembers you trying on-going and him putting the barrier between your sheets/bed.., that is what you want remember? NOT, it is his aim, get her to WANT SEX again, she's gone off trail, so sore d................get it? xx



And, don't worry why because you don't cause that, and it's why we, and it's why you are here,

That is what I am picking up, very evident and as a result you work towards something otherise unseen.

I think that's important for posters to see, cause it seems to be the case.

AGAIN, therefore, I am proud... You may make silly errors but really , each time he thinks he wins, with us he doesn't..

We are not perfect, we only offer advice remember that, can't do any more as posters on this forum, however, what you feel makes sense, you go with...

Those who think you don't listen and there would be a few, let them read this...

Fact... You don't see, but you want to and as a result you do...

and:

Fact, you kind of see us, as friends, and we are.

and:

ahhhh fact, can't use that word, haha, it's "opinion" but yeah, fact, love, you have grown and you don't have to see it all in-front most people don't the see, when they are ready regardless.

CW

[cassie66]

dont worry i did not rub the cream in! i said i had to go to the bathroom so he can do it himself
i dnt know if im any way forward im trying to ignore him and get on with things its not always easy i do try to listen to everyones point view
he also said his bits are red and did i want a closer look lol er not anymore at one point i wouild have dropped everything to please him yet he doesnt do the same for me
its the budget today here in england and him just sent me a text saying child ytax credits are going up does that mean i get more money! he s unbelieveable! what it means is there will be an increase of 20 pounds from next april

[cassie66]

hi all
he gets paid next week phew not sure how much he will have. been a real strain lately. he s been preoccuiped with downloading movies on his new shuttle he built himself so fortunealty he s left me alone. not sure how long he will stay calm though. we suppose to be going for a meal on sunday we meeting my dad as its his birthday and he will pay for us 2 but i think his mum and his family may be coming hope not lol not heard from her since she rang up and complained tuesday. thats the last thing i want his mum and aunts.

[cassie66]

wc
i distrubuted some cards advertising pet services. dont know if i wil get any calls. unemplyment is very high here and not much money about