[CHANDLERS WISH]

.....d "stuffed" just doubled up that is all.

I am saying, she accepts it, that's a huge plus for you, but she works 12hrs a day and tends to the kids, which you are now seeing if you can help with.

Off course she could not be stuffed, she is buggered (Aussie word) I think I would be...am... I know those hours.

[Guest]

s thats a huge plus for me
i just wore a bra n asked her again how she feels, she aid its funny and i asked her again she said 'sometimes little kick,

[Guest]

u should use simple english when u explain things CW

[CHANDLERS WISH]

u should use simple english when u explain things CW

'sometimes little kick,

I could translate that to simple english but..........

[Guest]

Off course she could not be stuffed, she is buggered (Aussie word) I think I would be...am... I know those hours. pls translate

[jns]

IS (italian sweetie), pls understand im not neglecting my wife, for instance every time she wants sex 95% i do but every time i need she is not ready for some reasons like (1.the kids have school on week days so weekends but friday night she's tired or 2. the house is not clean or 3. im not clean or 4. the kids might get up sleep or 5. doing pending office work or checking mails or etc etc and sunday night we cant have because monday school etc etc) so the only option left is saturdy night and what is the probability???
i m not justifying

tt, your wife has a much lower libido than you. I doubt all of the gifts are going to change that. I also doubt that her working long hours has much to do with it, because when she has time off, she doesn't make having time together for adult playing and sex a priority. I know that since you posted this, you had a good time with your wife after starting to do things together. I truly hope that changes everything. I hope it is my own cynicism that makes me think that was about the novelty of the situation or in other words: the Coolidge Effect.

[Guest]

hi jns i totlly agree with u. u must be a male or a female psychiatrist,

[Guest]

dear ladies i expect some mature discussions like what jns n CW say not somethg like "how do u feel when ur wife flirts with ur friends"

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Hi Tulip,

Off course we do not judge on this Forum, but a question is ok and that question is ok, re if your wife flirted how would you feel, because how else can the members explain to you that flirting with your wife's friend is not on, wrong.... Putting you into your own shoes to see what fits, seems fitting

Ok, JNS feels that regardless of working 12hrs a day, not having enough sex is not due to tiredness.

I on the other hand, feel that if she works 12hrs, looks after the house, kids, cooking, cleaning, washing, baths, etc, etc, she would not want sex. And, her labido could be low due to all of those long hours and work load.

She seems to be "ok" with your fetishes.

[jns]

CW, I know that long hours can make for tiredness that makes many people push sex further down the priority of things. It can become very convenient to not have it. However I saw with my parents, that they made time to have fun fooling around together. Not that I saw everything or even close. But the fact that I have a brother that is 12 years younger is proof that things didn't stop. My mother had her tubes tied after that as he was the fourth and not truly expected. In the summertime the work days for both were more than all of the hours of light long with time out for eating, maybe 16 - 18 hours. We did live on a farm after all.