[Casey715]

That's the thing HD, that 20 year old chick in pigtails, that is my wife, no joke. Like I said, she is hot and takes care of me. I'm not looking at something better, just different. I'm certain that does not make it any better in your mind. Its not just 20yo somethings, somtimes its an older girl, or a orental girl. So yes, I guess I would log on and get off because that is exactly what I do. Sorry.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I know you addressed that at HD..

But, proven point. You CAN get off on just the visualisation and thought of your woman, if you had to You don't want to ..

I get Tex, that it's a pattern, but maybe old dogs really can learn new tricks

[Casey715]

fallen1
you have me in a spot, I have done everything in my power not to admit this, but i guess its variety. On a very primitive level I can admit this. It is better to get off to some unknown than to cheat. if I didn't wack off to porn would I cheat, no. But, I don't know?

[Casey715]

Right CW, I can, but choose not too. why? I guess i just am selfish. but not to be mean, but i know that is how it is perceived.

[Texinator]

fallen1
you have me in a spot, I have done everything in my power not to admit this, but i guess its variety. On a very primitive level I can admit this. It is better to get off to some unknown than to cheat. if I didn't wack off to porn would I cheat, no. But, I don't know?

Sort of like it would be boring to eat your favorite food every single day and so you'd prefer to snack on something else every now and then?

[Casey715]

Yes, Tex. But I know they hate to hear that. Saying it out loud just sounds like we are u know whats.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

Chandlers Wish asked, "I wonder if the men that view porn and are faithful to their partner, see it as a way to avoid cheating."
Not for me. I have no desire to cheat.

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fallen1
you have me in a spot, I have done everything in my power not to admit this, but i guess its variety. On a very primitive level I can admit this. It is better to get off to some unknown than to cheat

[QUOTE]

Hehe.. I know you said you wouldn't followed by but, would I?

I see it as exactly that... The good guy who is primative, loves sex, loves variety, loves difference, but would not cheat as he loves his partner but is still somewhat, tied into that old batchelor way, knows what his SO expects, deserves, but finds it irresistable to see a variety of different "types" of women, in front of him, in some form of manner...

Actually, when we think about it, you all look the same If your all thin, for instance, your doo daaahs, hang about, coupled with a, well couple, in different lengths... Yet, us women have a few things to look at naked, that seems to be more appealing, is it maybe the adam and eve, situation, the forbidden fruit? Only in viewing form.

Sort of like it would be boring to eat your favorite food every single day and so you'd prefer to snack on something else every now and then?

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Now that would involve physical cheating and I draw the line there...

Yes, Tex. But I know they hate to hear that. Saying it out loud just sounds like we are u know whats

Bathplugs?

I noticed once.... I wasn't snooping, (ah now I get your snooping bit), Anyway, I had to tell the person to clear their history, they had a child and you wouldn't want the child to realise that... But, in any event, it was different cultures, no type, specifics.

This is why I feel that it's a boy thing, it's a forbidden fruit, it's all that they had before they married, a variety, and that's hard to give up...

What i think is important, is the honesty, the togetherness, the definate show of love and not, not sleeping with your SO because this variety has taken over as an addiction...

It is, in-deed also the woman whom has to feel confident in her relationship and know.

However, now the women who want to bash me I still agree if it bothers a woman that much, then there has to be compromise, or it has to be ceased, or it has to occur out in the woods on your way home, with a mag, get caught by the cops and ... na, that may be a bit rich!!!

[Casey715]

This is Casey715's SO, as a married women for 10 years and with the same man since i have been a teenager, my opinion on this is, It is NOT cheating. Porn is there for you for a reason, to get off!! I admit i had a problem with him masturbating at first, then i realized that i am the one that he holds and loves on every night, i guess it just takes self confidence and knowing that you are the only one that meets his needs sexually. To me porn is not the enemy and every women should be glad porn is there. Because of the fact that i am not around 24/7 and i work 10 hour shifts and he has all that time to himself, i would rather him j/o to porn than be the ex husband with out a penis. ;.)

[CHANDLERS WISH]

i would rather him j/o to porn than be the ex husband with out a penis. ;.)

Bobby bobbit?

Welcome to the Forum Casey's other half...

I do agree, self confidence, that has been touched quite considerably on this Forum...

But, two people together, one doesn't like something, should not there be compromise? Isn't that what constitutes a relationship?

Isn't that what you did? Compromised and then found confidence and then noticed, it's ok... to you?

I don't think women should be glad porn is there, I am sorry I disagree... I understand it, I understand the forbidden fruit, I understand the variety of women, I understand the excitement of it... I'm not against it.. But, masterbation is also there, for exactly that.

You feel horny he/she is not there and so you can relieve yourself....

We as women as I stated, can and do visualise our partner... in those instances, the past sex we had... Why can not a man? Because he likes the variety, the thrill, perhaps...

Let me ask you... When you masterbate, what do you think of? Do you use porn? Visual aids? Or do you think of Casey, or nothing at all..

Fair question

[Casey715]

Reply from Casey715s wife---ok i will agree to not ALL women should be glad but at least it gives an out to those times when one is just not in the mood or too tired to get hot and heavy and it does just take 5 min. to j/o to porn. I for one do use porn to masturbate sometimes and other times i don't and honestly, i don't think that i have used a past experiences to masturbate too. although,some have been hot and steamy i do think of them from time to time but not to masturbate to.