[Hopeless Dork]

Oh honey, yes... step out of that comfort zone pronto. Not just for other men to notice you, but for your own man to notice you as well!! (not to mention how good it will make you feel about yourself) Don't hide your gifts... its summer time, flaunt em' We think because our men see us in the bedroom that dressing sex is irrelevent since they know the deal under the clothes anyway... but men are visual (ugh, we are too lol) and seeing you in a sexy lil outfit is exciting for them... sometimes clothes are hotter than no clothes because they accuentuate whats not showing!!

[Crystalblue]

In late March, my husband helped me pick out some "bedroom outfits", but that didn't really mess with my comfort zone because he was the only one that was going to see it. Since then, I've been working out and jogging, getting my athletic build back and losing flab. I've lost 17lbs in the last four months, most of it from loss of appetite, but I feel a lot better about myself than I did in Febuary, so the new clothes will be easier to go out in, but it'll take some getting used to.

[wendilee]

girl flaunt that stuff. the nicer i dress or the more girly i look, the better i feel. i am 38, just lost 22 pounds, down to a size 7. and i am feeling so confident.
you need that for yourself. and when other men look at me, i just smile and go on about my buisness. Men think that a confident woman is sexy as all get out, so knock them out with your self. walk with your head held high, smile, look people right in the eye.
ur hubby will notice too. believe me.
come on out of that comfort zone, just a little. it will be ok. ive done it. its scary but once you do it, you will feel better!
good luck hun

[Crystalblue]

I have no idea if I'm doing this right... I'm technologically challenged and have to teach myself.

[pretzel]

Yes, you did it right.

It's nice to see a face to go with the name,

And yes, you are a very beautiful young lady.

[CHANDLERS WISH]

I just deleted (4) posts Of mine, accidently the one you highlighted there Prezt, all my answers ended up and may still end up before your at post 125.....

Which does not make sense now does it, I can't reply before you replied to your reply lols....

SO hopefully this one ends up at 130 if not I'll VM you ...


Pfttttttttttttttttttt

PRETTTTTTTTTZEL

You were on line and you wrote your comment and I looked at the photo and was talking back at ya, you know? lol's "hey prezt you are right geez these women are all beautiful including mam ...You do know me, and I know you, so nada I didn't...x


Mam, most definately you can carry yourself well, don't think you need a push up bra But what the heck, do it anyway and whilst you are at it, let that beautiful hair down......

[pretzel]

Ah man finally I know who I am talking to and WT? HOW stunning are you?

Pretz all these women that come to this forum are beautiful, there is something there that shows their real self, not some pose rather a person and a beautiful person.
Way to go Crystal nice to see you

Geez CW, I didn't mean it in the way I think you may have read it. Sorry,

[WildChild]

I don't think she thought you meant anything but a compliment.

[pretzel]

I don't think she thought you meant anything but a compliment.

Yeah, your right. We both know CW too well.

[Crystalblue]

Thanks. I did feel some confidence dressing different. I went to the store and got lots of smiles, from men and women. Lol. I think I must have been showing more happiness. People have a way of knowing when you're ready & need to interact. It's not all about how I look, I guess, it's the vibes I'm giving off. It felt good to be in a good place, walking around being noticed.

Oh, not too many men at the track yesterday, so I don't feel like I made my point. In a way, it's not really about that to me anymore. It's more about making me feel better, which is a better goal for me right now anyway. Maybe I'll even wear a skirt every now and again. Lol. Now that is funny! (I'm kind of a Tom boy.)

I'll stick with the shorter shorts and the push up bras for now. Lmao, my boobs were sunburned at the end of the day. They're not used to that much exposure.