Wands have come a long way in recent decades, bearing only a passing resemblance to the so-called “back massagers” our grandmas kept hidden in their underwear drawers all those years ago.

Thankfully, we live in a much more forward-thinking, sex-positive era and we no longer have to keep our sex toys a “dirty” little secret!

By now, just about everyone understands the importance of a good vibrator. Though not essential to great sex, a vibrator is a surefire way to liven up your solo or partnered sex play.

Wand vibrators really are magical!

While they still work well for all-over body massaging — yes, our grandmas probably used them for that, too — they’re AWESOME for sexual stimulation.

We scoured the internet and uncovered the best wand vibrators available right now — so you can bring a little magic into your bedroom, or anywhere you go!

What Is A Wand Vibrator?

A wand vibrator is a handheld vibrating sex toy with a long handle topped by a rounded head.

Depending on the model, a wand vibrator’s handle may vary in length and girth, although this type of toy is not designed to be inserted into the vagina or anus unless it comes with an attachment that allows for this, as we’ll talk about later.

Wand vibrators provide targeted and controlled external stimulation with a lot of versatility, and that’s where their real magic can be found.

• How Does A Wand Vibrator Work?

A wand vibrator typically has a soft, rounded head and contains a motor that provides vibrating stimulation wherever it is applied.

Many wand massagers offer multiple vibration patterns, speeds, intensities, and attachments, as well, so the user can better customize their experience — yet another upgrade over the traditional wands of yore.

• What Type Of Stimulation Do Wand Vibrators Provide?

Primarily, wand vibrators offer external stimulation of the vulva, including the clitoris and labia, but their magic certainly doesn’t stop there.

When it comes to using a wand vibrator, you’re only limited by your imagination. You can use a wand on any erogenous zone you have — and even those you’ve yet to discover!

Why Would Someone Choose A Wand Vibrator?

Many women need clitoral stimulation to reach climax — something a wand vibrator is fantastic at delivering.

One study found that 36.6% of women needed clitoral stimulation during intercourse to reach orgasm, while only 18.4% didn’t.

Personally, wands are my preferred sex toy because they’re so versatile. They feel good just about anywhere on the body and they can be used by all genders.

I love using wands during partnered sex because they are easy and fun to use together.

My girlfriend and I like to get on either side of the head of a wand vibrator and share it while we make out. We both get to feel the vibrations at the same time and it takes masturbating together to a whole new level.

They can also be a great beginner’s vibrator, with some caveats. Dr. Susan Milstein, a human sexuality educator who sits on our medical review board, explained:

“Wand vibrators might be helpful for someone who has never used a vibrator before, but they can also be a bit overwhelming. Some can be large, and others can be noisy, and some plug into the wall, and all of those things might seem a bit much to people. But for introducing your body (and your brain) to a vibrator, this may be a great option.”

She went on to add that “if you’re uncomfortable with the idea of putting anything inside your vagina,” a wand can be a great choice because they’re designed for external stimulation.

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The Styles And Features Of Wand Vibrators

We’re especially lucky to live in a world with many clit vibrators — and vibrators in general — to choose from.

Wands come in many various shapes and sizes and are compatible with all bodies and lifestyles.

What Sizes Do Wand Vibrators Come In?

Wand vibrators used to be pretty big and bulky, but modern wands are available in a variety of sizes now — including small or hand-sized.

That said, the size of a wand does not correlate to its vibrational intensity.

Today, it’s pretty easy to find small wands that pack a really big punch, so you don’t have to sacrifice the size or shape of a wand vibrator when searching for clitoral stimulation and intense vibration.

Some people prefer using larger wands while others enjoy smaller heads and that’s all a matter of personal preference.

The smallest wands are about 6 inches long — a little bit longer than an average bullet vibrator — while the longest ones are 12 inches or more.

How Are Wand Vibrators Commonly Shaped?

As their name suggests, they look like wands — featuring a long handle with a rounded ball-like end.

Shorter and smaller wands may have a short handle with a smaller rounded end, while larger wands can have ergonomically shaped handles for extra comfort.

Can Wand Vibrators Be Waterproof?

Back in the day, they certainly weren’t since they were plugged directly into an electrical outlet. Most of them were designed for back or body massage.

However, many modern wand vibes ARE waterproof — but not all of them — so it’s important to note this feature when purchasing a wand if it is important to you.

Waterproof wands are specifically designed to be used in and out of the bath or shower and these will not use a wall outlet as their power source during operation.

Plug-in wands, on the other hand, are meant to be plugged into a power outlet — something you definitely don’t want to have anywhere near water!

While there are many wand vibrators on the market today that are waterproof, always double-check any product’s specifications before using a wand massager in water — even if it is cordless.

Do Wand Vibrators Typically Come With Specialty Attachments?

Some of them do!

A wand attachment is an accessory for your wand massager. Depending on the type of attachment, they can provide different stimulation and sensations beyond what the wand is capable of on its own.

For instance, folks with penises can enjoy penis masturbator attachments that easily slide onto the wand for incredible stroking sensations.

If you have a vulva instead, you might enjoy a textured head cover or a fluttering attachment.

Additionally, some attachments provide internal stimulation of the vagina or anus, offering an endless array of versatility from a single toy.

Sounds amazing, right? It is, but it’s also important to note that some wand attachments may have to be purchased separately.

What Type Of Power Source Do Wand Vibrators Use?

When they first hit the market, wand vibrators plugged into an electrical outlet — that was the only option for a power source.

These days, some of them are still corded but they can also be rechargeable and battery operated!

Most rechargeable wands cannot be used while they are charging, however.

If you’re impatient, often forget to charge your devices, or if you enjoy vibing for hours and hours, you might consider trying a plug-in wand massager that’s ready to go whenever you are.

Still, there’s a lot to be said about the benefits of a battery-operated or rechargeable wand vibrator.

My friend Claire loves her rechargeable wand because of its portability — she can easily take it with her wherever she goes. She told me:

“I’m a big fan of outdoor and exhibitionist sex. There is nothing better or sexier for me than using a wand vibrator on my front while my sex partner is plowing me from behind in public. 

Having a rechargeable wand vibrator is great for me because I can charge it at home and stick it in my purse for later. It makes me wet just knowing that I have my wand vibrator with me when I’m on a date.” 

If you think (or know) that you’ll want to take your wand with you on sexual adventures outside of the home, a rechargeable or battery-operated vibrator might be your best choice.

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Are Wand Vibrators Safe And What Are They Made From?

Wand vibrators are safe when used as designed, but you do need to be careful about what they’re made from.

What Are Wand Vibrators Made From?

The handle of a wand vibrator is usually crafted from some type of hard plastic, and ABS plastic is the most common material used.

Acrylonitrile Butadiene Styrene, or ABS, is a nonporous thermoplastic that’s perfectly body-safe and used in many common products you’ll find around the house.

The head of a wand vibrator is generally made from a softer material like silicone or vinyl.

It’s important to note that vinyl is not a toxic material on its own but it can be if it is blended with a toxic plasticizer, as we’ll talk about below.

Most vibrators today incorporate body-safe or medical-grade silicone for softness and to ensure body safety.

What Are The Safest Materials For Wand Vibrators, And Which Ones Should You Avoid?

As I mentioned earlier, most heads of wand massagers are made from body-safe or medical-grade silicone.

Both medical-grade and body-safe silicone are fantastic materials for any sex toy and they are both manufactured to be safe for contact with skin.

As we talked about earlier, ABS plastic is a type of sturdy plastic that is common among sex toys but in a wand vibrator, you’ll find it used mostly in the handle, although it can sometimes be found underneath the material that’s covering the head.

Speaking of the head’s material, vinyl is sometimes used to create the soft texture that’s typically found on the tip of a wand vibrator.

Although the term “vinyl” is often used to describe ALL forms of vinyl, chlorine-free vinyl is not toxic.

In fact, Ethylene Vinyl Acetate (EVA) and Polyethylene Vinyl Acetate (PEVA) are both “vinyl” — and they’re used in things like food storage bags, baby teethers, and even drug delivery devices inside the body.

However, when vinyl is blended with plasticizers like phthalates or chlorine — in the case of polyvinyl chloride or PVC — vinyl becomes a very problematic material for a sex toy.

PVC, along with bisphenol A (BPA) and phthalates, is one of the worst materials for your body to be in contact with.

PVC is porous — a characteristic that makes it a bad choice for a sex toy, to begin with, but it also contains vinyl chloride, which is a known carcinogen.

Like we mentioned earlier, vinyl — without chloride — is safe, but not all types of vinyl are created equal! Those that have added phthalates should be avoided, as well.

Phthalates have been tied to breast cancer and metabolic dysfunctions, may potentially affect fertility and even increase your risk of miscarriage.

BPA is another toxic material to watch out for, as exposure can result in a wide range of harmful effects that include endocrine disorders, cardiovascular abnormalities, cognitive effects, and also — you guessed it — cancer.

The bottom line is this: it’s always important to watch out for toxic plastics and materials when choosing a sex toy.

The wands that we included in our review are made from safe materials.

Can Wand Vibrators Cause Clitoral Or Vaginal Desensitization?

Nope — so you can ride your vibe as long and hard as you want to, within reason.

Contrary to popular belief, vibrators do not generally cause desensitization, although they can sometimes result in temporary numbness if you’re going at it long and hard without a break.

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How To Choose And Use A Wand Vibrator

We all experience sexual pleasure and sensations differently. Imagine how boring life would be if everyone got off in the same exact way!

Dr. Susan Milstein, a human sexuality educator who sits on our medical review board, offered some sage advice about selecting a wand vibrator.

“When it comes to any sex toy, I think it’s important to ask yourself three questions,” she said.

“First and foremost – is it safe? Make sure you’re buying a sex toy from a trusted source — and never one that’s been used! Check the materials it’s made from – avoid anything porous or made from toxic materials,” she advised.

“Second, what do you want it for? If you think this may be something you want to insert then that’s going to eliminate some of the wand vibrators as options,” she explained.

“And the last question, what features are important to you? Does color matter? The number of settings?”

Susan also mentioned the importance of a wand vibrator’s visual aesthetics. She told us:

“I know that may sound funny when talking about a vibrator, but if you feel uncomfortable looking at it or holding it, will you be able to forget that when you’re using it? 

If this is your first time purchasing a wand vibrator you don’t want to leave it in your drawer and not use it because of how it looks. You need to be comfortable enough with it that you can feel comfortable using it.”

That said, let’s take a look at features and considerations to think about before you purchase one.

What Are Common Features Of Wand Vibrators?

Wand vibrators are fun to pick out because there are many different unique shapes and sizes to choose from. There are wands out there that accommodate all kinds of lifestyles.

Features you should consider when shopping for a wand vibrator:

• Overall size and shape
• The ball tip size, shape, and material
• The flexibility of the wand’s head
• The variance in vibration pattern or intensity
• The noise level
• The power source: cordless (rechargeable or battery-operated) vs. corded (plugging into an electrical outlet)
• Whether the wand is waterproof vs. not waterproof
• The wand’s accommodation for accessories or attachments

The features that matter most to one person might not make a difference to another, but these are all common features that you should consider before selecting a wand vibrator for yourself.

What Should You Consider Before You Purchase A Wand Vibrator?

First, you should think about what you prefer during sex.

Do you like intense stimulation, or are you more about slow and steady vibes all night long?

Some wands come with multiple vibrational patterns and intensities to choose from, while others offer simpler interfaces, so it’s important to select one that matches your personal needs.

Additionally, the size and weight of your wand are also important features to consider.

Particularly if you struggle with hand mobility, a wand that is smaller and lighter in weight may be a far better choice for you compared to one that’s large, heavy, and difficult to wield.

Do you plan to use your wand in the bath or shower? If the answer is “yes,” you’ll want to make sure to select one that is waterproof.

Depending on your living situation, the sound of a wand vibrator may or may not matter to you.

If you have roommates or prefer your privacy, however, you’ll want to choose a vibrator that’s on the quieter side, although there are ways to make a vibrator operate quietly, too.

At the end of the day, it really comes down to what you want in a wand vibrator.

The best vibrator is always the one that works with you and enhances your pleasure centers.

What Erogenous Zones Can You Use A Wand Vibrator On?

Pretty much any of them — and that’s the beauty of wand vibrators!

You can use a wand on your clitoris, labia, nipples, neck, back of your knees, and anywhere else you find pleasurable.

If you have a spot in mind already, go with your instinct and try it!

How Can You Use A Wand Vibrator For Clitoral Stimulation?

Assuming your wand is made from body-safe materials, place it against your clitoris and vulva and start it on the lowest setting.

If you like what you feel, stay there — or add some speed. Applying pressure in different zones or patterns while using your vibrating wand is a nice way to see what your body likes best.

How Can You Use A Wand Vibrator With A Partner?

When using a wand vibrator during sex with a partner, you can try taking turns with it!

It’s always sexy to watch your partner get off on a wand vibrator since they create such intense stimulation — but don’t forget to clean it between partners unless it’s between your bodies and you’re using it together at the same time.

In that case — make sure you clean it afterward!

How Can You Reduce Sensations From A Wand Vibrator That’s Too Powerful?

If you feel that your wand vibrator is too intense, you can try less direct stimulation — instead of using it right on your clitoris, try placing it more against your mons.

Additionally, try holding it more lightly against your body. Don’t press it against your vulva; if the vibe is too strong, hold the wand so that it is barely touching your skin.

If it is still too strong, you can try using it over your clothes or place material like a towel, blanket, or even a thin pillow between your body and the sex toy to dull the sensations.

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The Best Wand Vibrators Available Now

We’ve included a special power rating for each wand vibrator we reviewed to help you find exactly what you’re looking for.

A 10/10 rating means that the wand will rattle your teeth, while an 8/10 is a more subtle vibration that’s still powerful. None of our recommended wand vibrators have a power rating below an 8.

Features you should consider when shopping for a wand vibrator:

• Overall size and shape
• The ball tip size, shape, and material
• The flexibility of the wand’s head
• The variance in vibration pattern or intensity
• The noise level
• The power source: cordless (rechargeable or battery-operated) vs. corded (plugging into an electrical outlet)
• Whether the wand is waterproof vs. not waterproof
• The wand’s accommodation for accessories or attachments

The features that matter most to one person might not make a difference to another, but these are all common features that you should consider before selecting a wand vibrator for yourself.

Our recommendations take all of these features into account in our overall ratings.

To make our list of top recommendations, each wand had to meet and exceed our rigorous standards and be:

• Made of high-grade materials (and no toxic substances or common allergens)
• The best of the best — none of our ratings go below 4 — because we take pleasure seriously

A Note On Our Ratings:

None of the products that made this list include any of the potentially toxic substances we talked about earlier like polyvinyl chloride (PVC) plastic, BPA, or phthalates.

We also avoided toys crafted from porous materials, as they cannot be easily cleaned or sterilized.

Additionally, the wand vibrators on our list are all made from quality silicone that is listed as either body-safe or medical-grade, chloride-free vinyl, or ABS plastic.

Hitachi Magic Wand

If you’re looking for a reliable, inexpensive, no-frills wand option, the Hitachi Magic Wand is an excellent choice and it’s one of the best vibrators you’ll find anywhere.

It’s certainly one of the best wands at Adam & Eve.

The Hitachi is one of the most well-known wand vibrators on the market and has been pleasing clitorises since 1968 — really!

With a vinyl tip, this wand vibrator offers a flexible head with a “discreet back massager shape” — although at this point…we all know what it’s most likely being used for.

The tip is about the size of a tennis ball and features rounded edges that are soft and gentle against your body.

The Hitachi Magic Wand only offers a two-speed control on its corded version — low and high — so if you’re looking for a vibrator with more variety, this one might not fit the bill.

Still, my brother owns a Hitachi Magic Wand and told me that every time he brings it out, his sex partner is intensely satisfied and reaches orgasm really fast. He said:

“It completely enhances sex for my female partners. It makes stimulating the clitoris during sex much easier, and I’m always asked what it’s called because they want to buy one.”

The Hitachi Magic Wand is an oldie but a goodie. It’s famous for a reason — it’s gotten people off for generations!

That said, it really can be used as a body massager for sore muscles, so it’s a great dual-purpose option to keep handy in the bedroom.

Although the traditional Hitachi is corded, there is also a rechargeable version available, as well.

Although the unit is cordless, it is NOT waterproof. The rechargeable Hitachi Magic Wand does include an upgrade to 4 speeds and 4 vibration patterns for greater variety.

It plugs into an electrical outlet to charge, taking about 3 hours to do so, but you can also use it while it’s plugged in and charging.

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LELO SMART WAND 2

This wand will hit all the right spots.

The four-hour run time makes this rechargeable wand one of the longest-lasting of any rechargeable wand massager that is currently on the market!

This is a reliable and functional sex toy that intensely stimulates every erogenous zone and more!

The body-safe silicone head feels silky smooth against the vulva and lasts a really long time, which means you’ll have a wonderful, chafe-free intense orgasm — or multiple orgasms!

The 10 massage patterns offer vibrations that range from a “teasing murmur” to a “satisfying pulse,” with an easy-to-handle three-button interface and a unique, curved handle for steady use.

The large flexible neck on this wand makes it easy to pinpoint and pleasure your clitoris and other erogenous zones with ease.

If you’re looking for a wand vibrator that you can use in the bath or shower, the LELO SMART WAND 2 is 100% waterproof.

The one major drawback to this wand is that you have to remember to charge it — it cannot be used while it’s plugged in and charging, which takes about two and a half hours.

Although the charging time is lengthy, it does operate for four hours so that’s a decent trade-off.

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Luna Rechargeable Personal Wand Massager

This wand is small and cute, yet it’s still powerful enough to bring you to an intense orgasm!

With over 19,000 5-star reviews on Amazon, it’s clear that this mini rechargeable wand is sure to excite all vulvas. A great wand for beginners, this wand is simple and easy to use.

One (very satisfied) reviewer said:

“Wow…just wow. This is my first time ever using a personal massager. I never write reviews for anything because I find it stupid sometimes…but this personal massager had me levitating off my bed, seeing Jesus, and I finished in 3 minutes.”

As long as you’re not bothered by pushing buttons multiple times to get exactly what you want, you’ll most likely love this wand!

Another reviewer said that she’s still working on figuring out all of Luna’s settings:

“Amazing. Took a little bit to get the right setting, and I will still have to use it and play a little more to figure out what works right. But for the first time, it was good. Used it while I was WITH my husband and he also enjoyed it.”

The Luna Rechargeable Wand comes with eight different vibrational speeds and 20 different patterns, so if you enjoy lots of variety in your sex toys, it’s worth it to look into this one.

It has an intuitive memory that activates the moment the wand is turned off. The next time you turn it on, it picks up right back up on the same setting you left off with.

The one-piece design crafted from medical-grade silicone makes this wand vibrator 100% waterproof so it’s perfect for use in the bath or shower.

The Luna lasts for about 90 minutes on a full USB charge and should not be used while charging.

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We-Vibe Romp Flip Wand

This wand comes with six speeds and ten vibration modes for you to choose from. If you’re looking for a small wand that holds big vibes, then this is the one for you!

The compact size and flexible tip of the Romp Flip Wand are good for tight or sore muscles in easy-to-reach areas, such as your calf muscles or upper biceps, and of course — it feels sensational on your clitoris!

One reviewer said:

“Waterproof, rechargeable, body-safe, and flexible. The only thing I could ask for is more battery life, 60 minutes is sometimes not enough. If you’re new to toy play this is a good starter with different speeds and vibration patterns.”

The flexible neck on this vibrating wand is designed to fit against your body so that it gets exaaactly where it needs to be.

It’s completely waterproof, which means that you can take it into the bath or shower to make cleanup time a bit more fun.

While it might not be the strongest wand out there, it’s sure to stimulate any vulva!

Another reviewer said, “My wife loves this wand. While it’s not as strong as her other one it gets just as much use if not more.”

This wand also connects to the We-Vibe app so that you can use it with your long-distance partner via a smartphone!

The biggest downside to the Romp Flip Wand is the short length of its playtime.

Sixty minutes will go by quickly — and although it is USB rechargeable, the charge time on this toy is 180 minutes and you can’t use it while it’s charging.

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Adam & Eve Intimate Curves Rechargeable Wand

This wand is complete with a flexible neck and 10 vibrational speeds and patterns so it’s no wonder why it’s one of the best Adam & Eve wands available.

Intimate Curves is an easy choice for first-time wanders, and it also makes a great gift. This wand vibrator is fun to use because of its convenient size and pretty bright pink color.

There are grooves on the base and body of this wand, which you can place up close and personal on your clitoris and vulva for wonderful external stimulation.

Fellow writer Kayla Lords tried the Intimate Curves Rechargeable Wand during the 2022 Sex Toy Challenge and had some great things to say about it:

This rechargeable wand is also waterproof, making it a great option for folks who like major wetness.

There are ten different intensities to choose from, though some reviewers have commented on the disrupting nature of the interface on this wand. One reviewer said:

“Only problem with this is the 10 different modes. If you’re on medium speed and want to go back to low [you have to] sit there and fumble through 10 modes to get back. Should just be high, medium, and low. Keep it simple or have a back button.”

Still, this wand is powerful and sure to get you off like magic.

The handle is curved, meaning it will allow you to get close to your (and your partner’s) body. Thinking on that, this wand would probably work really well in tandem with penetrative sex.

Although this wand will run for up to 3 hours on its lowest settings, the higher the vibration, the more quickly you’ll drain the battery. On its highest settings, you’ll only get about 1.3 hours of playtime.

The Intimate Curves Wand is USB rechargeable, but you can’t use it while it’s charging.

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In Conclusion

I think it’s amazing that we have so many sex toy options available to us today.

Though the wand massager has been on the market in some iteration for decades, it still lives up to its lasting reputation for multiple orgasms and incredible sexual pleasure.

There are countless ways to use a wand vibrator and anyone who’s looking to liven up their sex life will enjoy using one because they’re so versatile.

They come in all kinds of colors, sizes, and shapes, and they all feel heavenly on your vulva — or anywhere else — like magic!