Electric Ecstasy: The Best Vibrating & Electronic Fleshlights (Full Review)

If you want a pocket pussy that delivers sensational shivers (and vibrations that won’t quit), we’ve found the best vibrating Fleshlights to try.
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Updated:January 2024

It was bound to happen: as soon as the Fleshlight was created, the next obvious step would be to add the magic of vibration.

The Fleshlight Vibro line takes everything you love about Fleshlights and cranks up the intensity (and tightness) higher than we thought possible, which may or may not be a good thing.

For a brand with such thoughtful and impressive engineering throughout its many product lines, the Vibros were a bit of a letdown in some respects — but still offered plenty of excitement.

After 9 hours of cumulative research and testing, we’ve concluded that the Vibro Lady is the best vibrating Fleshlight available.

We’ll share our other top pick, along with everything you need to know about Fleshlights that vibrate.

Our Top Recommendations

Best Overall
Also Good
$89.95
$89.95
Description:

Bottom Line: Featuring labia lips that tickle and tease — thanks to the sleeve’s deep vibration — the Fleshlight Vibro Lady offers an intense tightness and a level of satisfying stimulation that’s almost TOO much! [Full Review + Video]

Description:

Bottom Line: The tighter-than-tight fit of the Fleshlight Vibro Butt is exciting enough on its own but the added vibration of the sleeve takes this anal stroker to a level of intensity our team never dreamed possible. [Full Review + Video]

Best Overall
$89.95
Description:

Bottom Line: Featuring labia lips that tickle and tease — thanks to the sleeve’s deep vibration — the Fleshlight Vibro Lady offers an intense tightness and a level of satisfying stimulation that’s almost TOO much! [Full Review + Video]

Also Good
$89.95
Description:

Bottom Line: The tighter-than-tight fit of the Fleshlight Vibro Butt is exciting enough on its own but the added vibration of the sleeve takes this anal stroker to a level of intensity our team never dreamed possible. [Full Review + Video]

Our Research, Testing & Review Methodology:

  • Vibrating Fleshlight Requirements: Quality construction and safe materials, realistic texture, comfortable fit, excellent performance, ease of cleaning, and user-friendly design.
  • Vibrating Fleshlights Considered: 2
  • Models Tested: 2
  • Tested By: Justin Perlman, David Talquenca, John Brownstone
  • Total Research Time: 9 hours across 2 months (as of 11/20/2023)

Best Overall Vibrating Fleshlight: Vibro Lady

Best Overall
Fleshlight Vibro Lady
4.6
$89.95
Pros:
  • Vibrating Labia Tickle And Tease
  • Intense Vibration Throughout The Sleeve
  • Incredible Tightness
  • Simple Yet Exciting Internal Texture
  • Variable Settings Based On Bullet Placement
Cons:
  • Tedious Set-Up & Difficult To Reassemble
  • Not Discreet (Or Easy To Turn Off)
  • May Cause Penile Numbing In Some
  • Might Be Too Tight For Larger Penises
  • Requires More Care When Cleaning
Bottom Line: With labia that teasingly vibrate and angled, finger-like nodules stroking you throughout the entire sleeve, the Vibro Lady offers unbelievable tightness and intense vibration. It may take a bit of effort to set up, but this exciting pocket pussy gives you a buzz in the best way imaginable.
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Fleshlights on their own are fantastic — so adding some extra rumble and shake to the fun seemed like a welcome addition.

I was excited to try the Vibro line when I learned about it because I’ve always been very impressed with Fleshlight’s functional design.

aerial photograph of the fleshlight vibro lady vibrating pocket pussy and stroker with its three bullet vibrators, cap, and box on a cloth surface

The various textures and chamber designs across its many sleeves and the simple yet elegant cap that controls the suction have always demonstrated real skill and innovation.

So, the method they employ to make it buzz would be equally impressive, right?

Not so much.

photograph of an unimpressed product tester justin holding the packet of three bullet vibrators and replacement batteries that came with the fleshlight vibro lady vibrating pocket pussy

To make the pocket pussy vibrate as advertised, three bullet vibrators have to be inserted inside special pockets around the sleeve.

And you have to remove the whole sleeve to do this.

Once you slide the bullets into their respective holes, you have to turn each one on individually, and then squeeze the whole thing back into the casing.

split-screen image of two photographs of product tester justin trying to insert a bullet vibrator into the fleshlight vibro lady sleeve while making comical expressions signifying a struggle, with text heading that reads: demonstration of what a person looks like when trying to insert bullet vibrators into the fleshlight vibro lady

It can be a finicky process — and a frustrating one — to push a button on something that’s encased inside wobbly and stretchy SuperSkin.

(The last one is always a pain in the ass.)

Then you realize that you’ll need to do this all again in reverse when you’re done — but with lube and semen to increase the difficulty.

photograph of product tester justin pulling out the fleshlight vibro lady sleeve from its case with text overlay that reads: just when you thought your work was done, you get to do it all over again

(As I found out later, it was like trying to catch a fish with my bare hands.)

Thankfully, the bullet vibes are waterproof and don’t need to be removed when washing.

photograph of product tester justin holding a single bullet vibrator from the fleshlight vibro lady vibrating pocket pussy while making a playful sideways expression on his face

Beyond the minor annoyance of the vibrators themselves, how does the Fleshlight Vibro Lady perform?

Pretty good, actually.

Fellow product tester John Brownstone absolutely loved this Fleshlight.

“The Vibro Lady was one he really, really liked,” his partner, Kayla, explained.

photograph of the fleshlight vibro lady with its cap removed and the vulva facing the viewer, laying on a cloth surface next to its black and red box

“We’ve been playing with vibrations in our relationship for years,” she said. “He likes that kind of sensation.”

“The Vibro Lady was right up his alley,” she added, continuing:

“He told me that he liked the vibrations, but he also liked that the bullet vibrators — which is what makes the Vibro Lady vibrate — came preloaded with batteries.”

“It was a win-win,” she said. “He could take it out of the box and just start using it and he didn’t even need me there, which was fine by me,” she said, laughing.

photograph of product tester justin holding the fleshlight vibro lady in one hand while making a slightly surprised expression on his face at the intensity of the male sex toy and stroker

This is a Fleshlight that feels like the kind you use every now and again when you really need to get the job done.

It is an intense experience with powerful vibrations — and one that may be too much for the average Fleshlight session.

Starting with what sets the Vibro Lady apart from the Vibro Butt, the exterior has an aesthetically pleasing vulva that leads to a tight opening.

close up photograph of the fleshlight vibro lady vibrating stroker to display its pink vulva orifice in detail

The labia were actually the biggest deciding factor when our team discussed which Fleshlight Vibro would come out on top.

The labia tingle and tickle your tip as you get ready to enter, like an appetizer for the heavy feast of sensation waiting inside.

Not only is this a nice way to start things, but it feels great to just slide against it with a lubed-up boner.

photograph of product tester justin wearing a smirk on his face while inserting one finger into the fleshlight vibro lady vibrating pocket pussy and stroker during the testing process

Once inside, the first thing you’ll notice is how much tighter everything is with the three bullet vibes in place.

The sleeve looks tight enough on its own, but there is a stark difference when the bullet vibrators are loaded up.

Even for someone with my average level of girth, the squeeze on this male masturbator was almost too tight for comfort.

photograph of product tester justin holding his finger against the texture map on the back of the fleshlight vibro lady box to demonstrate the sleeve's tightness

Going past the tightness, the internal texture was very exciting but not as interesting as other models I’ve tried.

The tightly packed finger-like nodules are angled so you really feel them as you pull out during a thrust or stroke.

The texture is the same throughout the entire sleeve with no surprise chambers and it does its job well enough, but there is something to be said for a bit of variety.

There is still an incredible amount of tightness and suction, despite its simplicity.

photograph of product tester justin holding the fleshlight vibro lady box in one hand while pointing to the simple finger nub texture map on the back of the box

Honestly, the whole thing reminded me of the Fleshlight Stamina Training Units in terms of both fit and feel.

The experience of using the Fleshlight Vibro Lady at full blast — meaning all of the single-speed vibes were inserted and turned on — was very intense.

After a few minutes, I started to feel a little numbness from the heavy vibrations; it wasn’t really unpleasant and probably helped me last longer.

The drawback to the Vibro Pink Lady design is that you can’t easily adjust the vibration while you’re using it — to turn the bullet vibrators off, you need to stop what you’re doing, pull out the sleeve, and push the buttons.

photograph of product tester justin holding the fleshlight vibro lady sleeve in his hand with text overlay that reads bullet vibrators for the fleshlight vibro lady are inserted into small pockets around the sleeve, with an arrow pointing to one

That’s a considerable design flaw.

After a time, I also noticed some warmth coming from the vibrators themselves.

It may be a bug and not a feature, but the warming sensation actually did add something extra.

After I came, I immediately felt a sense of dread at the idea of needing to remove the sleeve.

Not even to clean it — just to turn each of the bullets off with my slippery fingers.

photograph of product tester justin struggling with the bullet vibrators inserted into the fleshlight vibro lady sleeve

Just yanking that monster out of the case caused a bit of backsplash, but not as much as I was worried there might be.

After fiddling with the push buttons on each bullet vibrator (and trying to keep it together while I performed this ridiculous task), it was time to wash up.

For as great as a dense, detailed Fleshlight texture can feel, the price of admission involves being a lot more careful about the cleaning.

I let everything drip into the bottom as much as I could to make things a bit easier before washing the sleeve with FleshWash toy cleaner and drying it.

Overall, I enjoyed the Fleshlight Vibro Lady, but the extra steps and the mild annoyance that comes with the bullet vibrators made it fall down my rankings pretty hard compared to other Fleshlight models.

Maybe I’m just lazier than I am horny.

I’m not saying I’ll never use it again, but it wouldn’t necessarily be my first choice.

Also Good: Vibro Butt Electric Fleshlight

Also Good
Fleshlight Vibro Butt
4.3
$89.95
Pros:
  • Intense Vibration Throughout The Sleeve
  • Incredible Tightness
  • Simple Yet Exciting Internal Texture
  • Variable Settings Based On Bullet Placement
Cons:
  • Tedious Set-Up & Difficult To Reassemble
  • Not Discreet (Or Easy To Turn Off)
  • May Cause Penile Numbing In Some
  • Might Be Too Tight For Larger Penises
  • Requires More Care When Cleaning
Bottom Line: Featuring a tight-as-hell puckered orifice and exciting, finger-like textures throughout the sleeve, the Vibro Butt offers intense vibration for an anal sex experience you won’t soon forget. It takes a little extra effort to set up, but this anal Fleshlight will rock your world — although it may be crushingly snug when all three bullet vibrators are inserted.
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Just when I thought the Vibro Pink Lady was the tightest Fleshlight in the game, along comes the anal version.

The Vibro Butt, which sounds like a schoolyard insult for a robot, has the same basic tightness and finger-like texture inside.

And just as with the Vibro Lady, the three bullet vibes add some extra pressure throughout the sleeve, but the opening is even tighter.

photograph of product tester justin holding the fleshlight vibro butt with the anal orifice facing the viewer while frowning with an unsure expression with text overlay that reads: the fleshlight vibro butt is crazy tight

Seriously, this was the first Fleshlight where I had to manually widen the hole a bit to really get in there. 

Putting the bullets into their respective homes and turning them on before putting the whole sleeve back inside the case was just as laborious of a process as it was with the Fleshlight Vibro Lady.

Fellow product tester, David Talquenca, noted that he “was not sure about the bullets at first,” when reading the instructions.

photograph of product tester justin holding the three bullet vibrators that came with the fleshlight vibro butt in one hand

Thinking they were meant to be used with the Fleshlight, rather than inside of it, he said the bullet vibrators “looked pretty scary to insert in your anus considering how small they are.”

(We’re happy to report that he eventually figured it out.)

The biggest difference I noticed when comparing the Vibro Butt to the Vibro Lady was the absence of the labia I’d come to know and love.

I  missed not having that gateway tickle and it made the Vibro Butt feel more like a “let’s get down to business” Fleshlight.

photograph of product tester justin holding the fleshlight vibro butt box in one hand while pointing to the orifice on the texture map printed on the back of the box

No frills, all hole.

When I thrust inside, the tightness was almost crushing.

Not in a painful or uncomfortable way, but it did raise an eyebrow.

You can lessen the amount of tightness by removing a bullet or two, but even then, I’m betting it would be challenging for someone who’s swinging a sledgehammer downstairs.

photograph of product tester justin holding the fleshlight vibro butt anal stroker in one hand to display the orifice to the viewer in detail

(Fellow product tester David rated the fit of this Fleshlight a 10 out of 10 with no bullets inserted.)

I used the Vibro Butt for about long as the Vibro Lady when I noticed the same numbing sensation, along with a slight warming from the batteries.

Aside from the lack of labia and the increased tightness from the opening, the experience was pretty much the same.

I came eventually…and wrestled my way out of the buzzing sleeve.

photograph of product tester justin holding the fleshlight vibro butt case in one hand while making an inquisitive expression on his face as though preparing himself for the thought of disassembling it and cleaning it

This time, unfortunately, I forgot to unscrew the cap at the end that controls suction.

That means I got a bit more splashback.

Cleaning and drying took the same amount of extra time and consideration, and the Vibro Butt took about the same amount of time to air dry (6 to 8 hours).

A quick run-through with a strong paper towel took care of any moisture left behind.

Like the Vibro Lady, the Fleshlight Vibro Butt is very intense and feels like it is meant for more of a special occasion when you want to mix things up — or get them done hard and fast.

aerial photograph of the fleshlight vibro butt with its three bullet vibrators, cap, and box on a fabric-covered surface

The extra replacement batteries are a nice touch, too.

I’d use it again, certainly, but the thought of fiddling with the bullet vibrators admittedly puts it further down my list of Fleshlights overall.

That being said, the extra effort does feel worth it when you’re in the mood for some super-stimulating good vibrations.

How We Made Our Picks & Features We Considered

photograph of product tester justin holding the boxes for the fleshlight vibro lady and fleshlight vibro butt in his hands while peeking out from behind them

When it comes to, well, cumming, we look at a product from every conceivable angle and considered two models of vibrating Fleshlight — the only ones carried by the company as of this writing.

The most important criteria to look for in a vibrating Fleshlight include:

When choosing the best vibrating Fleshlights, we weighed and tested:

  • How difficult it was to use (including inserting the batteries and bullet vibrators)
  • The fit and feel of each device, with and without the bullet vibes
  • How well the vibration performed and how it felt
  • How the overall experience was
  • Ease of cleaning and drying

What To Know About Vibrating Fleshlights

photograph of the boxes for the fleshlight vibro lady and fleshlight vibro butt vibrating pocket pussies and strokers on a table top together

You likely have questions about the Fleshlight Vibro Lady and the Fleshlight Vibro Butt — and you’ve come to the right place.

What Are Vibrating Fleshlights?

Vibrating Fleshlights are a type of male masturbator or pocket pussy that offers vibration throughout the sleeve to create extra stimulation during use.

Although Fleshlight is a brand, the term, “vibrating Fleshlights,” is often used to describe any pocket pussy, masturbator, or stroker that vibrates.

The Vibro line from Fleshlight features a tight fit and dense texture with the option to insert up to three bullet vibrators around the full-sized sleeve.

This allows a bit of customization, in that you can insert all of the bullets while only turning one or two of them on for a tighter fit with less vibration, or you can choose to use all of them — or none of them at all.

Fleshlight Vibro makes it easy to try out different combinations for the perfect amount of tightness and buzz that works for you.

Who Should Use Vibrating Fleshlights?

Vibrating Fleshlights are for people who want to take their Fleshlight fun to another level.

You might enjoy a Fleshlight Vibro if you:

  • Want a pocket pussy or stroker that vibrates.
  • Enjoy the realistic texture of SuperSkin material.
  • Do not have a particularly girthy penis, as the fit may be too tight when all three bullet vibrators are in place.
  • Want a type of Fleshlight that offers more excitement compared to others.
  • Aren’t bothered by the idea of a sex toy that requires a bit of set-up.
  • Aren’t worried about discretion; the Fleshlight Vibro is not easy to turn off during use (if someone, say, walks in on you suddenly).

In terms of tightness, texture, and the addition of a randy rumble, the Vibro line is for those who are looking for intensity over nuance.

It would work well as a Stamina Trainer, too — sort of like Crossfit for your dick.

Pros And Cons Of Vibrating Fleshlights

We’ve looked at the pleasures and pitfalls of the Fleshlight Vibro line, but here is a simpler way to look at the good and the bad.

Vibrating Fleshlight Pros:

  • They offer intense vibration and stimulation that’s unique among the entire line of Fleshlight products.
  • The extra tight fit, paired with the finger-like internal texture of the sleeve, is exciting and feels amazing.
  • You can adjust the vibration and the tightness, based on the number of bullet vibrators you insert.
  • The Fleshlight Vibro line offers a lady (vulva) and butt (anal) version of the same base stroker so you can choose based on the type of sex you enjoy.

Vibrating Fleshlight Cons:

  • They are tedious to set up, requiring you to remove the sleeve to insert the bullet vibrators.
  • It’s difficult to turn the vibration off because you have to remove the sleeve to do so — which means you also can’t turn it off quickly if you need to.
  • The vibration can feel somewhat numbing after a time.
  • They may be too tight for larger or thicker penises.
  • No variance in skin tone — both are just classic pink.
  • The cleaning and drying take a bit more effort compared to other Fleshlights.

Are Vibrating Fleshlights Safe?

Overall, Fleshlight Vibros are safe to use, but there are a few things to be aware of.

Here are some safety considerations you should know about:

Closing Thoughts

The Fleshlight Vibro line is everything you love about Fleshlights maxed out.

That may or not be a good thing.

Best Overall
Also Good
$89.95
$89.95
Description:

Bottom Line: Featuring labia lips that tickle and tease — thanks to the sleeve’s deep vibration — the Fleshlight Vibro Lady offers an intense tightness and a level of satisfying stimulation that’s almost TOO much! [Full Review + Video]

Description:

Bottom Line: The tighter-than-tight fit of the Fleshlight Vibro Butt is exciting enough on its own but the added vibration of the sleeve takes this anal stroker to a level of intensity our team never dreamed possible. [Full Review + Video]

Best Overall
$89.95
Description:

Bottom Line: Featuring labia lips that tickle and tease — thanks to the sleeve’s deep vibration — the Fleshlight Vibro Lady offers an intense tightness and a level of satisfying stimulation that’s almost TOO much! [Full Review + Video]

Also Good
$89.95
Description:

Bottom Line: The tighter-than-tight fit of the Fleshlight Vibro Butt is exciting enough on its own but the added vibration of the sleeve takes this anal stroker to a level of intensity our team never dreamed possible. [Full Review + Video]

We really wish the geniuses at Fleshlight had found a more elegant and easy way to pack the powerful vibrating punch inside, as the current bullet vibe system can be more trouble than it is worth.

The Fleshlight Vibros are still fun to use, don’t get me wrong, but the minor inconvenience does knock the experience down a peg or two.

Editor’s Note: This article is part of our Complete Guide To Fleshlights and Everything Fleshlight hub, in-depth and evolving resources that comprehensively explore and review all aspects of Fleshlights from the company’s discreet billing and shipping, to the types of products they carry, how to use them, materials, and safety.