How To Use A Bullet Vibrator: 7 Tips For Solo And Partnered Play
Shaped like their namesake, bullet vibrators are a gateway sex toy for many women because they’re small, discreet vibes that don’t intimidate newbies but still offer plenty of pleasure for even the most discerning clitoris.
Although bullet vibrators are designed to be placed directly against the clit to provide stimulation, they can be used by all genders across many erogenous zones that include:
- Nipples
- Labia
- Buttocks
- Anus (externally only)
- Penile shaft
- Testicles
- Frenulum (located beneath the head of the penis)
- Perineum (located between the genitals and anus)
- Neck
- Inner Thigh
- Any external area craving stimulation
Some women start with a bullet vibrator and fall in love instantly, never straying from their new fave. Others try a bullet, love it, and then look for a sex toy with a bit more kick as they gain more experience.
If you’re a total newbie to vibrators, bullets are the perfect beginner sex toy — but they’re beloved by advanced users and couples around the world too.
We’ll explain everything you need to know about bullet vibrators, but if you’re thinking about trying one, click here for our top recommendations.
In this article, we’ll talk about:
- What Is A Bullet Vibrator?
- Best Bullet Vibrators To Try
- Using A Bullet Vibrator
- Are Bullet Vibrators Safe?
Editor’s Note: This article is part of our How To Use A Vibrator and Everything Vibrators hubs, in-depth and evolving resources that comprehensively explore all aspects of vibrators from the different types and how to use them, to materials and safety — created to help you achieve the sexual pleasure you deserve.
What Is A Bullet Vibrator?
At its most basic, a bullet vibrator (also sometimes known as a vibrating bullet) is a vibrating sex toy shaped like a bullet. Some bullet vibrators are only an inch long, while others are roughly the size of your index finger.
For the most part, bullet vibrators are about 1” to 3” long and generally don’t exceed 5” in length, making them easy to hide. This discretion is what tends to make them so popular.
Bullet vibrators are often extremely quiet (although not always!) so you’re not letting the entire world know your business every time you turn it on.
From the smallest to the largest versions, bullet vibes give your clitoris the stimulation and pleasure you need to get off and feel amazing.
With 36.6% of women needing clitoral stimulation to get off, the bullet vibe swoops in like the superhero it is to save the day.
Bullet vibrators have changed over the years.
Early versions were the size of a literal bullet and attached to a motor by a plastic cord. Some even came with remote controls.
Modern-day bullets tend to be just a few inches long with a tapered tip, although you can definitely find wider, thicker, and longer versions of these versatile vibrators.
Some have flat ends to more firmly press against your clit, as in the case of “lipstick” vibrators that resemble their namesake, while other bullet vibrators have bulbous tips to give your clit a surround-sound experience.
Although a basic bullet vibrator will offer just one or two vibration settings, more advanced toys provide multiple vibration modes, including patterns.
Neither is better or worse than the other — what works best for you is a matter of personal preference.
Some clits only need a single setting for maximum pleasure and others require more variety in their orgasmic life.
There’s a perfect bullet vibrator for everyone who needs targeted clitoral stimulation delivered just the way they like it.
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Best Bullet Vibrators To Try
After exhaustive testing by our team, we found the best bullet vibrators that deliver a lot of pleasure despite their small design.
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Description: Bottom Line: It may not look like a stereotypical bullet, but the Bloomi Play Mini blew away the competition. The super-soft silicone feels amazing and the toy’s flexibility makes it easy to hit the right spots. While it only has three settings, the vibrations worked well for our testers, making it a unanimous favorite. [Full Review + Video] |
Description: Bottom Line: Featuring a removable bullet vibrator, this Cute Little Fucker is one of the most adorable vibes we’ve seen. With 10 settings and a unique design, it’s great for the clit, G-spot, P-spot, and any other erogenous zones you want to explore. There are so many ways to enjoy it that it may be one of the most versatile toys on your nightstand. [Full Review + Video] |
Description: Bottom Line: With a whopping 20 settings to choose from, all our testers found something that worked for them while using the Desire from Lovehoney. It also comes with a sleek case that keeps it discreet and clean between uses. Because of the tapered tip, this bullet is great for external play on clits, testicles, nipples, and more. [Full Review + Video] |
Bottom Line: It may not look like a stereotypical bullet, but the Bloomi Play Mini blew away the competition. The super-soft silicone feels amazing and the toy’s flexibility makes it easy to hit the right spots. While it only has three settings, the vibrations worked well for our testers, making it a unanimous favorite. [Full Review + Video]
Bottom Line: Featuring a removable bullet vibrator, this Cute Little Fucker is one of the most adorable vibes we’ve seen. With 10 settings and a unique design, it’s great for the clit, G-spot, P-spot, and any other erogenous zones you want to explore. There are so many ways to enjoy it that it may be one of the most versatile toys on your nightstand. [Full Review + Video]
Bottom Line: With a whopping 20 settings to choose from, all our testers found something that worked for them while using the Desire from Lovehoney. It also comes with a sleek case that keeps it discreet and clean between uses. Because of the tapered tip, this bullet is great for external play on clits, testicles, nipples, and more. [Full Review + Video]
How To Use A Bullet Vibrator
There’s a reason why a bullet vibrator is so popular with sex toy novices: It’s extremely easy to use. All you really have to do is charge it, turn it on, press it against your clit, and ride the waves of orgasmic pleasure.
But that’s really just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to using a bullet vibrator. You can also:
- Use it during erotic massage — on yourself or a partner
- Wear it inside of your underwear as a panty vibrator
- Take it with you on date night, which can be especially fun if it’s remote-controlled
- Press it against your clit during penetrative sex in any position that allows direct access to it
- Place it inside of a dildo or anal toy that accommodates a small vibrator
- Slip it inside of a pegging dildo or strap-on that accommodates a bullet vibe during partnered playtime
- Hold it in your palm while masturbating a penis
When it comes to using a vibrating bullet, you’re only limited by your imagination. They can be used alone or in conjunction with other sex toys — vibrating or otherwise!
Additionally, some dildos can be turned into vibrators if they have a hollow center to accommodate a small bullet vibe. Other sex toys like cock rings and anal toys may also feature a “pocket” of sorts for a bullet vibrator.
If the noise from your bullet vibrator is a little too loud for your liking, there are ways to dampen the sound during use.
How To Use A Bullet Vibrator For Masturbation
If your clit is too sensitive for direct stimulation from a narrow tip, apply the length of the bullet along your clitoris, instead.
Pressing a wider area over your clit can reduce the overwhelming vibration if it’s too much for you, while increasing your pleasure in tandem.
You can also touch other sensitive bits and erogenous zones with your bullet, such as your nipples, neck, your perineum, or other parts of your vulva including your labia. Go with what feels good!
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How Can Couples Use Bullet Vibrators?
Men can also enjoy a bullet vibrator alone or with a partner, too. Try touching their nipples, shaft, or testicles, or, if you’re both feeling brave, their perineum for an external prostate massage.
As a personal note, my husband loves it when I use my bullet vibrator on him — in all the areas I mentioned above.
Want to get more creative with your bullet vibrator? Why not consider products that allow you to use those vibes wherever you go?
While you can easily tuck a mini vibrator into your purse for fun on-the-run, couples can enjoy stepping things up by purchasing a remote-controlled or wireless version.
Imagine going to dinner, running errands together, or enjoying a much-needed vacation and having your partner control your pleasure waves at will with the touch of a button or swipe of a smartphone screen.
It doesn’t get any better than that.
There are wireless models designed to fit snugly and comfortably against the clit — kept in place by underwear — as well as others that are wearable or insertable and essentially stay inside until you remove it.
Those models come with a flat base designed to prevent the bullet from getting lost or stuck inside you — making them completely safe for inconspicuous sex play in public.
Bringing sexy time wherever you are can turn any outing into a sexcapade only the two of you will know about — just be sure to keep things on the down-low if you play in public.
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How Can You Use A Bullet Vibrator During Sex?
Again, this is where the mini vibrator shines, thanks to its compactness. It’s so easy to use one during sex!
From doggy-style to missionary, spooning, and woman-on-top, bullet vibes are a great way to add additional clit stimulation while partners are getting it on together.
A bullet vibrator can be placed against the clitoris during penetrative sex in any position that allows a hand to reach it for added stimulation.
But a vibrating bullet can also be pressed against any area that’s within reach and drives either partner wild — including their nipples, neck, stomach, or other erogenous zones.
There are so many creative ways to use a bullet vibrator on yourself or your partner, it’s no wonder why they’re among the most popular vibrators on the market.
- Do You Need Lube With A Bullet Vibrator?
Lube makes playtime with sex toys better, and bullet vibrators are no exception. Even though bullet vibes aren’t typically used for insertion, lube allows them to slip against the skin wherever they’re used externally.
A water-based lubricant generally has a texture that’s similar to your body’s natural lubrication and pairs well with toys made from any material — which is especially good if you’re not exactly sure what your toy is made from.
Always consult your bullet vibrator’s manual if you intend to use silicone or oil-based lubricants to make sure they are compatible with your toy’s material.
Can You Put A Bullet Vibrator Inside You?
Although vibrating bullets are made for external stimulation, they can sometimes be used internally — with caveats.
The vagina is closed-off beyond the cervix; at worst, a small vibrating sex toy might be a little difficult to retrieve if it slips all the way in — but it won’t get “lost” inside of you.
That said, old-school bullets of the one-inch variety offer very little pleasure internally. They tend to be much too small to create enough vaginal stimulation and it’s impossible to reach your G-spot with a vibe that tiny.
Modern bullet vibes that are longer and more powerful might feel amazing internally, especially if they’re long enough to reach your G-spot.
The only place your bullet vibrator shouldn’t ever go is up your butt.
A bullet vibrator can be great for external stimulation of the anus but unless it has a flared, wide base to prevent it from going all the way inside, it won’t be safe for anal penetration.
A bullet vibrator could easily get sucked into your rectum — which could mean an uncomfortable and embarrassing trip to the ER.
Are Bullet Vibrators Safe?
Most of the bullet vibrators on the market today are quite safe because they’re often made of high-quality silicone or ABS plastic — two of the safest sex toy materials available.
If you’re shopping for a bullet sex toy — or any vibrating sex toy for that matter — you should avoid any products made of rubber, jelly rubber, Thermoplastic Rubber & Elastomer (TPE/TPR) blends, and other unsafe sex toy materials that might potentially be harmful to your health.
Bullet vibrators are definitely safe to use externally but they become far less so if you attempt anal penetration, as we talked about earlier.
You might think you have a tight grip on it, but lube — or even your body’s natural lubrication — makes everything slippery. Accidentally let go of your vibrator, and it could get pulled inside.
If you’re worried about a bullet vibrator desensitizing your clitoris, don’t. It’s extremely rare that it happens at all, and you’d need a lot more stimulation than what your bullet provides.
Although extended use of a vibrator may lead to temporary desensitization — which is nowhere near the same thing as permanent nerve damage — taking a short break is enough to remedy the situation.
In Conclusion
Thanks to their size, ease of use, and versatility, bullet vibrators are extremely popular with people of all genders.
They can be the gateway toy to an expansive vibrator collection or they might simply remain a beloved nightstand staple.
As with all things relating to sex, bullet vibrators aren’t the right option for everyone.
If you’re still searching for your perfect vibrator, check out our Everything Vibrators guide to explore your options. And if you don’t know what kind of vibrator you should try next, take our vibrator quiz to find your perfect match!
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