What Is A Remote Control Vibrator & How Do You Use It?

How To Use A Remote Control Vibrator For Masturbation

You don’t need a partner to enjoy a remote-controlled vibrator and you can use any style that works best for your body and your budget.

Wired remote vibrators will be limited in their use, however.

You won’t be able to go totally hands-free and in most cases, the device is not going to be waterproof.

But a wired remote control is great for small vibes like a bullet vibrator while you’re learning the ropes and to make changing the settings easier if you’re just learning how to use a vibrator.

Wireless, Bluetooth, and mobile app vibrators give you a lot more freedom and generally, offer a lot more flexibility in their settings.

Look for a remote-control vibrator that provides the versatility you need, is as discreet as you want it to be, and doesn’t require you to pay constant attention to the remote.

Once things get good, you should be able to ride the waves of pleasure without worrying about buttons or mobile apps.

How Can Couples Use Remote Control Vibrators?

Couples have so many options when it comes to enjoying remote-control vibrators together, from playful explorations at home to naughty teasing in public, or even sharing intimacy while miles apart.

Go out on a date and have one partner wear vibrating panties or another type of wearable vibrator while the other partner keeps the remote.

You can make a game out of not getting caught or letting your face or body give you away.

Long-distance relationships can still have plenty of sexual intimacy with a vibrator that works through an internet-connected mobile app.

Both of you will need to have the app downloaded to your phone and open at the same time, but it’s a great way to get in some sexy time even when you’re far apart.

If you’re curious about kinky games with an element of domination or submissiveness, a remote vibrator can be an excellent way to play with orgasm control.

One partner uses the remote or app to decide how much or little sensation the other partner will feel — with full, enthusiastic, and informed consent, of course.

You can also play with mutual masturbation if both partners use a remote-controlled vibrator and swap remotes with each other.

Make it a game to see who orgasms first, who drops the remote first, or who can handle the most stimulation.

There are so many ways couples can have fun with remote-controlled vibrators.

It’s a great way to explore new sensations and new forms of intimacy together in your relationship.

How Can You Use A Remote Control Vibrator During Sex?

You didn’t think we forgot that couples can use remote-controlled vibrators during sex, did you?

We saved the best for last.

You can do everything mentioned above and call it sex.

But if you’re looking for ways to incorporate your remote control vibrator into intercourse, it’s easier than you realize.

You might experiment with remote control bullet vibrators, egg vibrators, or butterfly vibrators that provide clitoral stimulation during penetration.

Additionally, there are plenty of sex toys that allow for both internal and external (that’s clit and G-spot) stimulation once you insert it, yet leave space for penetration of the vagina at the same time.

Many couples’ vibrators are designed in this way.

The remote means you don’t have to fiddle with the settings during penetration. Even better, your partner may also feel the vibrations and gain extra pleasure at the same time!

Another option is to choose a vibrating cock ring that can be controlled by a remote or an app.

The partner wearing it stays harder, longer.

The partner on the receiving end during penetration gets external stimulation with every thrust — so everyone has fun.

The bonus is that the remote makes it easier to focus on your pleasure while keeping the sensations fun and exciting.

• Do You Need Lube With A Remote Control Vibrator?

In general, lubricant makes everything better, so it never hurts to use it.

If your vibrator is designed to be inserted vaginally, lube can reduce potential friction and help it glide in more easily.

For remote vibrators designed for anal stimulation, lube is an absolute must.

Any sex toy experience can be improved with a bit of lubricant, even when you don’t (technically) need it.

A water-based lubricant generally has a texture that’s similar to your body’s natural lubrication and pairs well with toys made from any material — which is especially good if you’re not exactly sure what your toy is made from.

Always consult your remote control vibrator’s manual if you intend to use silicone or oil-based lubricants to make sure they are compatible with your toy’s material.

Can You Put A Remote Control Vibrator Inside You?

In many cases yes — but it’s best to do so only if it’s designed for penetration.

Some panty vibrators or wearable vibrators are meant to be used inside the vagina and that’s perfectly safe.

Likewise, prostate massagers and anal plugs are made for the anus and safe for that type of use.

If your vibrator is not made for insertion, use extreme caution.

Before you stick a vibrator up your butt, make sure it has a tapered tip for easier penetration and a wide or flared base so it doesn’t get sucked into your rectum.

If you intend to insert a toy in your vagina, make sure it’s long enough to easily remove from your body or that it has a handle or cord to make removal easier and safer.

The last thing you want to do is go to the emergency room to have a sex toy pulled out of your body.